Hypothetically Speaking 2

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Ummm... Sounds like the guy is a gentleman, but also sounds like a movie.. Nothing could be that "perfect" in real life... Is the guy gay for not "hitting it?" WTF? Maybe she's really a man and he figured it out... I don't know.. Is he wanting a meaningful relationship now that he knows that the transvestite brought over her "sleeping bag" after only one week... Was it a week night or a weekend? Maybe she thought wine would be involved and she didn't want him or her to drive after drinking.. She could have just been really well prepared... Hmmm... IDK.

[HvyArms]

Ummm... Sounds like the guy is a gentleman, but also sounds like a movie.. Nothing could be that "perfect" in real life... Is the guy gay for not "hitting it?" WTF? Maybe she's really a man and he figured it out... I don't know.. Is he wanting a meaningful relationship now that he knows that the transvestite brought over her "sleeping bag" after only one week... Was it a week night or a weekend? Maybe she thought wine would be involved and she didn't want him or her to drive after drinking.. She could have just been really well prepared... Hmmm... IDK.

Hmm good points

1: No she's definately not a man, definately not.
2: Nah, the guy isn't gay. He was trying to be respectful, and make her comfortable in his home.
3: Yes it was a weeknight.
4: When he offered her something to drink, she did assume he meant wine. So maybe she didn't want him to drive after drinking?

[Tiff-O-Bitties]

Hmm good points

1: No she's definately not a man, definately not.
2: Nah, the guy isn't gay. He was trying to be respectful, and make her comfortable in his home.
3: Yes it was a weeknight.
4: When he offered her something to drink, she did assume he meant wine. So maybe she didn't want him to drive after drinking?

Ok... So now that we have 1 and 2 out of the way... #3, so they watched a movie on a week night... Do you happen to know what she had packed to wear to sleep in or even to wear to work the next day?? If she packed something sexy (lingerie) as opposed to maybe flannel pants and a sweatshirt, she might be insinuating she wanted to be seen in and turn the guy on... In other words, she's easy and is not the type to be in a commited relationship... If she packed something not so sexy, there might still be hope! #4, She automatically assumed wine: white, red or blush? Typically white or blush means she's drinking to get a buzz or drunk (which coinsides with the sexy lingerie, same as liquor)... Red means she's all about health and wants a conversation to evolve (meaningful relationship type)... Beer would have meant she's spunky and down to earth and wants to have a good time (not so much ready for a serious relationship either)... Anyway, the guy was a gentleman, made her comfortable enough for her to want a move made, yet, he wasn't ready for that... Good for him.. So, now she's curious as to what he wants out of it.. Be upfront and honest... He should tell her his intentions, and if she's not interested, she'll leave.

[HvyArms]

Ok... So now that we have 1 and 2 out of the way... #3, so they watched a movie on a week night... Do you happen to know what she had packed to wear to sleep in or even to wear to work the next day?? If she packed something sexy (lingerie) as opposed to maybe flannel pants and a sweatshirt, she might be insinuating she wanted to be seen in and turn the guy on... In other words, she's easy and is not the type to be in a commited relationship... If she packed something not so sexy, there might still be hope! #4, She automatically assumed wine: white, red or blush? Typically white or blush means she's drinking to get a buzz or drunk (which coinsides with the sexy lingerie, same as liquor)... Red means she's all about health and wants a conversation to evolve (meaningful relationship type)... Beer would have meant she's spunky and down to earth and wants to have a good time (not so much ready for a serious relationship either)... Anyway, the guy was a gentleman, made her comfortable enough for her to want a move made, yet, he wasn't ready for that... Good for him.. So, now she's curious as to what he wants out of it.. Be upfront and honest... He should tell her his intentions, and if she's not interested, she'll leave.

The Guy isn't really sure what was in the bag. it could've been duct tape and knives for all he knows. Everyone is telling him it was an overnight bag, and that she planned to stay with him that evening. It would explain her stalling, and her confusion perhaps. When the guy offered her something to drink, she said "sure, as long as it's alcohol". He told her that he doesn't drink, and she was cool with grape juice. The guy is definately attracted to her, and he'd love to have sex with the girl, but he wants the commitment as well. Problem is that, now he's having a tough time getting in touch with her, and he's not sure if it's because he DIDN'T try to have sex...or because she's embarrased. BTW, he asked her if she'd packed clothes in her bag, because she thought she was spending the night. He asked her this the next day, and she said 'no, ofcourse not.'. Is she embarrased? I think so, so do most of our friends that he's asked.