Question about females...

[LaurenK]

You stated "every girl"... "wants the "other man" to be close to their boyfriend/husband." There are a lot of females that "don't" cheat, and the females that "do" are just ignorant. That statement you made is "false". You can't sterotype "cheating women", or any women for that matter. I am sure "cheating women" all have their own ways of hiding things. I don't understand why you would feel the need to be with a married woman any way, but that's just my opinion. The situation is only going to destroy your friendship with the husband, the lives of the children, and break up her whole family. Why risk all that for a piece of ass? Just sit back and think logically...would you want to be in the Husband's position? I bet not...I think you need to do the right thing, and end all ties before you get yourself into something you can't get yourself out of. You would only be relieving yourself of un-necessary drama.

[Kapil]

I would just hope to god that they dont get on IA.

[FrnkPwrs]

You stated "every girl"... "wants the "other man" to be close to their boyfriend/husband." There are a lot of females that "don't" cheat, and the females that "do" are just ignorant. That statement you made is "false". You can't sterotype "cheating women", or any women for that matter. I am sure "cheating women" all have their own ways of hiding things. I don't understand why you would feel the need to be with a married woman any way, but that's just my opinion. The situation is only going to destroy your friendship with the husband, the lives of the children, and break up her whole family. Why risk all that for a piece of ass? Just sit back and think logically...would you want to be in the Husband's position? I bet not...I think you need to do the right thing, and end all ties before you get yourself into something you can't get yourself out of. You would only be relieving yourself of un-necessary drama.

I think I should have typed a little more on the subject. For one, I dont think that everysingle female in the world cheats, but it has been my experience that when a female does, that usually the female wants you to be cool with the dude she is cheating with. I have been on both sides of the spectrum, and when talking to others who have been in that situation, either side, it is usually the same way, the two people know each other. Thats what I was pointing out.

My situation as of recent, I did not know she was married when i first met her. After a couple of months, you start to actually like someone, and then you get hit with "Oh, Im married" and realistically its hard to just ditch the person within 5 minutes. She tried to get me to be cool with the husband, and we ran in the same social circles, and she tried to get me cool withhim. So Im against the situation, always have been. BUt there were times when iwasnt so innocent in the situation, and i had the same thing happen where the girl wanted me to be cool with her man.

But Julio is right, things are more simple when they are older