Ive got into this convo with a female friend of mine last nite. I got a VM from this guy who is like "Hey, how come you never come by? YOu dont want to kick it anymore? Whats the deal". Well this dude is my ex gfs husband. The husband that she had a baby with and was messing with me while they were married. I was the "other man". But my question is this. Why is when females cheat on their man, they want you to be best friends with their man? That shit is BOLD. Its like a security blanket so the girl knows that if you stop messing with her then you still be around because her man so its easy to ''MAKE UP''. Am I the only one this has happened to?