hahahah ^^^ you must not have a wife/gf
hahahah ^^^ you must not have a wife/gf
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What I have learned over the past couple months is...follow what you feel...if you dont want to be with her dont...if you want to try to work things out try if you succend you are happy if you fail...well then you past through a time of really shity ness then you are happy.
If it makes you feel any better. I am 20 yrs old have one one kid, my divorce was finalized on the 24th. My wife cheated on me and I tried to fix things. She got feed up with me trying to fix things and told me not to come home one night so I left. She seems happier and I know am much happier and our daughter because she is only 2 doesnt really understand but she is handling it very well and is happy as a clown as much as a 2 yr old can be.
Just trying to help. Do what feels right.
I saw a bumper sticker that applies to your look on things. "I am the boss...my wife said I could be"Originally Posted by RaИdomGuy
you will surely want to try to make it work at least one last time lol
dude, if you are married, you made a promise...you have to keep that...
try talking to her, get counseling, take a vacation together...but dont just start thinking about screwing around...if my husband ever did that, it would ruin my world for the rest of my life...
but ay isnt there a new law about child support BOTH PARENTS HAS TO PAY? some shit like that?
No. Child support is based on the income of both parents now. Why would the custodial parent pay him/her-self child support? Later, QD.
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well, we are going out to eat tonight (sat) to talk. I think we can be cool if she just stops bitching ans nagging. I am with a software startup company and have a highstress level professionaly and she is going to put me in an early grave (wouldnt blame her, im worth more dead then alive) with all the nagging and shit.
please explain .... Sounds like your wife is more of a man than you are.
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I am going to stick it our for my sons behalf. I want him to be raised up right.
Hmmm. Kind of contradictory saying that right after you say that you're gonna cheat on your wife.
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Real bad but then I used to enjoy life. Like really enjoy life.
Please explain what? You say you want your son to be raised right yet you are wanting to cheat on your wife? How is that showing good morals and values? Also, cheating is the answer? Doesn't make much sense to me. You can enjoy life during marriage, also. I hope everything goes well for you at your dinner. Later, QD.
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Well the cheating would probably not go advertised. I do want my son raised right. I do not have the answers so do not think that my implication of a fix was to cheat, just thinking about it put a smile on my face.
The cheating should not go, period. If it's that bad, you need to leave and get a divorce. Life will really be fucked up if you get caught. Later, QD.
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I've been through everything that you are going through - an d a lot more.
Here is what you need to do. Forget counseling, cheating, etc. Divorce is out of the question since you have kids - for now. Don't even think of it as an option.
Start off by getting a babysitter, and then - go out on a date. Make it like when you first started dating. I don't mean go to the same places. I mean make it a similar experience, where you treat her nice, tell her she is beautiful, etc. If you date/court her again, you'd be amzed how fast her attitude will change. And of course that will take the stress off you and your attitude towards her will improve. SHe be ready to hop back in bed then.
^^ This guy is right. I had more to say but I erased it because I drank too much and it would of took me 30min to type. +1David88vert, I'll respond when I wake up tomorrow.
gewd luck on what ever your gunna do ..
everyone basically spoke what i was gunna say ..
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omg... this is is going to put me on my soap box... first off let me begin by saying this... I can almost guarantee that you got married because she was pregnant, wow! what a righteous thing to do.... I dont know what it is about young people ( betweem 16-20) who feel they HAVE to get married because their is a chld involved....knowing damn good and well that it wont work. you absolutely kill me by saying that you are miserable but you are going to live with the "bitch" for 16 more years ... because its the right thing to do.. well you know what ... fuck that.... when i was unhappy in my marriage i be damned it i was going to stay in it just for the benefit of my children, what about me?,,,, i know that their dad and I loved them and gave them everything they needed so why was it important for us to stay together ... i deserved to be happy as well , and if us splitting was the way to do it, so be it.... iwhy should the kids have to deal with us both fighting,screaming and yelling .... everyone deserves happiness, no matter how you find it, Have the balls to say it wont work, and move on... you will still have your child to love, isnt that all you need?
My ex wife when she was with me when we would walk down the stairs at our apartment EVERYDAY I would think if I should just give her one good push but I then would think if it didnt kill her she could turn me in for saying I was trying to.... And everytime we would drive on back roads I would see all these areas of trees and brush that no one was ever around and would think, If I killed her I could bury her body out here and no one would ever know...... THATS WHAT I KNEW I HAD TO GET OUT OF MY MARRIAGE because if I didnt, Id be in jail for a looooonnngggg time.
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i am about to have a baby and i am 20 almost 21 and i am not getting married yet i have been with my man for 5 years he is 20. i want to get married sometime in the next couple of years and i hope things turn out good for us....but you are right the child is important his future etc making it work would be the best but if you are very unhappy it could also be a bad thing. think about seperating or talking to her i know it is hard but the child is the main concern which most parents know and would do anything for or just let things play out maybe they will get better but you are still young
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Just to combat the statements of getting married b/c my son. We were married when my wife got pregnant. We got married while I was on active duty about 1.5 years before my son was born.
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