Quote Originally Posted by tybalt6691
I was 5 when my parents split. I want the best for my son. I drive a POS so he can go to a montesorry (SP) school. I can live with a bitch so he's happy for hmmm 16 more years OH GOD THATS A LONG TIME.

omg... this is is going to put me on my soap box... first off let me begin by saying this... I can almost guarantee that you got married because she was pregnant, wow! what a righteous thing to do.... I dont know what it is about young people ( betweem 16-20) who feel they HAVE to get married because their is a chld involved....knowing damn good and well that it wont work. you absolutely kill me by saying that you are miserable but you are going to live with the "bitch" for 16 more years ... because its the right thing to do.. well you know what ... fuck that.... when i was unhappy in my marriage i be damned it i was going to stay in it just for the benefit of my children, what about me?,,,, i know that their dad and I loved them and gave them everything they needed so why was it important for us to stay together ... i deserved to be happy as well , and if us splitting was the way to do it, so be it.... iwhy should the kids have to deal with us both fighting,screaming and yelling .... everyone deserves happiness, no matter how you find it, Have the balls to say it wont work, and move on... you will still have your child to love, isnt that all you need?