My. 02,

You don't owe anyone any explanation, and telling your personal business on IA kinda is a sign you still have a ways to grow up. No offense at all, you have had a rough year it sounds like, but its going to get harder before it gets easier.

Your main concern is your baby, getting stressed out over Evan to the point you have to post on here to try and "get even" and have him read it is ill advised.

Log out. Walk away, handle your kid/business. The rest will sort itself out.