So Im getting divorced

[teh bri]

I agree, 365 days from today I'm gonna text her and tell her to file and pay. Have to be separated 1 year to file. Mike, do you not have a Facebook page?


Brittanee, send me a friend request on FB

Sent!

[Vteckidd]

She can call the cops all she want, you're legally married you can't steal anything. All you use to say is "I lost it" or "I've never seen it" etc

I would remove her from any financial accounts ASAP like checking and saving, 401k anything like that. I'd prob close all accounts and open new ones just to be safe. In case she stole checks or anything. Knows your pin etc

Id also change any password to your email, faceboOk etc

[Brett]

Yeah I did all that last weekend when she left me.

[Evil Goat]

She can call the cops all she want, you're legally married you can't steal anything. All you use to say is "I lost it" or "I've never seen it" etc

I would remove her from any financial accounts ASAP like checking and saving, 401k anything like that. I'd prob close all accounts and open new ones just to be safe. In case she stole checks or anything. Knows your pin etc

Id also change any password to your email, faceboOk etc

I don't know....I think murder would be less time consuming....

[TeeJay]

Holy crap, Brett. Do you live in Charlotte by chance?

[Brett]

Just outside of the area, yeah.. why?

[Echonova]

Holy crap, Brett. Do you live in Charlotte by chance?

You the one banging his soon to be ex?

[Evil Goat]

You the one banging his soon to be ex?

that'd be me...

[Brett]

If it wasnt for the simple fact I am almost 100% sure she left me for another guy, I would find that kind of funny

[Alan®]

Brett,

I know this blows and I feel for you. If she's already shacking up with some other guy chances are somethings been going on for awhile and shes probably been planning this. Do what everyone else has said. Cut her out as much as possible and move on with your life. In the end you'll be fine just keep your head up.

[Brett]

.. thats exactly what I am trying to do

[babygurl]

So I threw out our rings earlier this week and now after she has walked out on and has been gone a week, and getting her stuff Sunday, she asked for her ring back, I told her I disposed of it and she says she is going to file a police report stating I have stolen property... I mean really? She said when we married it was a contract and that ring was hers. I cant believe her.

Well Brett Tell your wife, that the rings were common property since you ARE still married. So she can not file a police report!! Dumb hooker!!! I am not sure if you guys had a house or apartment, but if you were just leasing a place get her name off of the damn lease.

I understand you are going through a hard time right now, and are hurting. I am sorry she is being an evil bitch. You are an awesome person and deserve to be happy. I know you were hurting when Leisa passed away. Hell I am sure you are still hurting. But you getting married again, happened for a reason. Dont have regrets just lessons learned. Also next time she is a bitch to you just use that famous saying "IS THAT ALL YOU GOT?" Come on on Brett all those years on IA, and you lost the smart ass in you? I doubt that. Like I told you another time before, mourn for a little while, but then its time to live life and be happy.

And as far as you losing your friends because of your wife and feel like you have no one, that is a false statement. You made a mistake, your true friends will always be there for you. So let me know when you get here and let's party!!!!

[ash7]

And as far as you losing your friends because of your wife and feel like you have no one, that is a false statement. You made a mistake, your true friends will always be there for you. So let me know when you get here and let's party!!!!

Amen to this.

-jonathan

[Echonova]

Brett. I am going give you the advise that my mother gave me when I was going through my divorce.


"Just don't drink and listen to country music". True story.



But for realz...

[Brett]

I havent had anything to drink and I have been listening to alot of country music

[h22 jones]

If she wants this, make her pay for all of it. Later, QD.

I agree with qd. Untill you move on and you being married causes you problems i would tell her if she wants this to pay for it simple as that. I would pay for it before i let it cause me problems in another elationship but you seem far away from that right now so let it be her burden and make her pay for it. I cant see were she4 has been fair to you one bit. Im sorry but women just dont get a divorce over a guy they just meet . This has been going on for awhile and hell yaw have only been maried two years she has issues dude find you a good girl if any are still out there.

[TeeJay]

Just outside of the area, yeah.. why?

I saw you at Carolina Place mall LOL. We never met in real life but we were friends on Myspace back in the IA heydays (Myspace, shows you how long ago that was lol) so I sort of remembered what you look like. When I saw you I was like "is that Brett? Nah can't be, he lives in ATL". Wow small world.

[Brett]

yeah I was there last week actually...lol

Okay someone who knows how laws work here is one question, We bought a new car in December, Its under both of our names but her name is listed first. She is demanding I get th ecar refinanced so it gets her name off of it or she will take the car, But if my name is on it as well, She cant take the car right? I am the one who makes he payments and there is no law that says I have to take her name off the car Id think

[Echonova]

yeah I was there last week actually...lol

Okay someone who knows how laws work here is one question, We bought a new car in December, Its under both of our names but her name is listed first. She is demanding I get th ecar refinanced so it gets her name off of it or she will take the car, But if my name is on it as well, She cant take the car right? I am the one who makes he payments and there is no law that says I have to take her name off the car Id think

Typically things like this are worked out during the divorce, but if you don't take her name off, she could "take off" with your car (assuming she has a key)... Because you can't steal what you own. If she takes it she will simply not make payments which will screw your credit.

Get the car in your name. Or take your name off it if you don't want it.

Get Lifelock or put a freeze on your credit RIGHT NOW! Trust me, this bitch has no problem getting store credit cards in your name... I know this because me and my ex went and paid off all of our credit cards and closed them out. She had re-opened all the accounts before we saw the lawyer the next day. I had no idea until I started getting collection calls.

If you have a joint bank account, close it. If she starts bouncing checks... You're on the hook.

Basically you need to start handling this chick like the $3.50 (with a coupon) street rat hooker she is.

Do not ever give her the benefit of the doubt again.

[h22 jones]

Typically things like this are worked out during the divorce, but if you don't take her name off, she could "take off" with your car (assuming she has a key)... Because you can't steal what you own. If she takes it she will simply not make payments which will screw your credit.

Get the car in your name. Or take your name off it if you don't want it.

Get Lifelock or put a freeze on your credit RIGHT NOW! Trust me, this bitch has no problem getting store credit cards in your name... I know this because me and my ex went and paid off all of our credit cards and closed them out. She had re-opened all the accounts before we saw the lawyer the next day. I had no idea until I started getting collection calls.

If you have a joint bank account, close it. If she starts bouncing checks... You're on the hook.

Basically you need to start handling this chick like the $3.50 (with a coupon) street rat hooker she is.

Do not ever give her the benefit of the doubt again.

This is no joke man . I got a call asking if i want to consolidate my credit cards . I said i only have one and it doesnt have a balance . Boy was i wrong and when i confronted her about it she got mad and wanted to know the name of the guy giving out her credit information . Hello they were in my name lol . five different credit cards .

Ok now my ex wife was on my car loan and house loan and demanded i get her off. Now who wants to pay 4,000 dollars to refinace a house just to get her name off not me . So i told her my cousin was buying my house so i needed her to sighn a quick claim deed so i could sell it. Hook line and sinker lmao. Not sure how that would work on a car but hey a saftey kill switch is realy cheap. If she cant drive it she cant take it lol. She does not have a legal leg to stand on . At the very least she could sue you in civil court to have a judge order you to get it out her name odds are thats not going to happen either screw her.

[Vteckidd]

youre both on it, youre both owners. She can take it and vice versa. She should pay all fees associated with refinancing it