Relationship problems, could use some advice

[JessAlba452]

Looks like you're defending the trick. Later, QD.

QD if I did actually defend her I would not have even mentioned that they should break up if there are trust issues which there are. I actually am more on his side since he is showing to be the more responsible person within the relationship.

At the same time I cannot be biased upon that opinion alone, and say just dump her without all evidence to back it up. There is no need to further destroy an already broken relationship if he actually wants to be with her still.

Though that decision is up to him, not any of us.

[RBS]

tell her to kick rocks

[Vteckidd]

DOnt get played. Vagina has a weird way of casting a spell over us, but dont put the pussy on a pedestal. There are too many other nice girls out there

[quickdodge®]

At the same time I cannot be biased upon that opinion alone, and say just dump her without all evidence to back it up.

It doesn't matter if she is or is NOT having a sexual relationship with anyone else. There is ZERO reason why a female needs to accompany a male to bars and other outings if she is in a relationship. Especially one that is already as trying as a long, long distance one. Later, QD.

[DJ XtRaK©]

It doesn't matter if she is or is NOT having a sexual relationship with anyone else. There is ZERO reason why a female needs to accompany a male to bars and other outings if she is in a relationship. Especially one that is already as trying as a long, long distance one. Later, QD.

I'm with stupid...cept he's not stupid, I am.

[RL...]

It doesn't matter if she is or is NOT having a sexual relationship with anyone else. There is ZERO reason why a female needs to accompany a male to bars and other outings if she is in a relationship. Especially one that is already as trying as a long, long distance one. Later, QD.

I believe that relationships are based on trust, and that is is the foundation for a successful and happy relationship. If that's the case, one should be allowed to go to a bar(s) with the opposite sex even though they're in a committed relationship. What I'm typing now isn't referring to this thread or the op though as his gf(ex gf?) has already proven to be untrustworthy. I don't see the problem with going to a bar as long as she is not being shady or giving you a reason to distrust her.

You should be able to trust your gf to go to a bar with guys, and also trust her in that she cares about you enough not to get too drunk or do something stupid. Girls can cheat on you whenever with whoever they want, so if she wants to cheat on you, she will so there's no sense in trying to control her. If she acts shady though, dump that ho.

[quickdodge®]

You should be able to trust your gf to go to a bar with guys, and also trust her in that she cares about you enough not to get too drunk or do something stupid.

The part in bold is the EXACT reasons why females (or males for the girls out there reading this) have NO reason to go to a bar or club with someone of the opposite sex. Later, QD.

[RL...]

The part in bold is the EXACT reasons why females (or males for the girls out there reading this) have NO reason to go to a bar or club with someone of the opposite sex. Later, QD.

All comes down to 2 things, a) trust, b) a girl's whorish tendanciess

If you have a good girl and you have trust you would have nothing to fear.

[quickdodge®]

All comes down to 2 things, a) trust, b) a girl's whorish tendanciess

If you have a good girl and you have trust you would have nothing to fear.

Completely disagree. With both parts of your comments. Later, QD.

[Echonova]

All comes down to 2 things, a) trust, b) a girl's whorish tendanciess

If you have a good girl and you have trust you would have nothing to fear.

You have much to learn my young padawan. In this particular case...

If's she's so dedicated to your love, she would not feel the need to go hang-out... with another guy... at an establishment that serves tasty beverages that release your inhibitions... did I mention with another dude... oh, and lie about it... because really who's gonna know?

I have trust in God.


All others pay cash.

[quickdodge®]

You have much to learn my young padawan. In this particular case...

If's she's so dedicated to your love, she would not feel the need to go hang-out... with another guy... at an establishment that serves tasty beverages that release your inhibitions... did I mention with another dude... oh, and lie about it... because really who's gonna know?

I have trust in God.


All others pay cash.

Now we're getting there.

And by no means am I coming down on you, RL, but you're young, and, being such a young age, I suspect you haven't been in a real serious relationship so you don't have a hand to lay down. And that's not a knock to you, dude, but like EN above said, you have much to learn. Hop into a real relationship with someone you really care about. Your thought processes may change. Later, QD.

[RL...]

You have much to learn my young padawan. In this particular case...

If's she's so dedicated to your love, she would not feel the need to go hang-out... with another guy... at an establishment that serves tasty beverages that release your inhibitions... did I mention with another dude... oh, and lie about it... because really who's gonna know?

I have trust in God.

All others pay cash.

I wasn't directing what I said at the ops's gf, we've already established she's a whore. Why does it matter is she's hanging out with a guy or koala bear, as long as she doesn't do anything slutty then I see no problem. Of course lying about going to a bar with a guy is shady as hell but assuming the girl isn't a lying whore, I think it's acceptable.

I will say this though, I don't trust girls period which is why my longest relationships has been 5 months. I also find that life is easier, more enjoyable, less stressful, and that I have more financial freedom when single. I am not at the point in my life where I could trust a girl 100%, mainly because of girl's like op's.

[RL...]

Now we're getting there.

And by no means am I coming down on you, RL, but you're young, and, being such a young age, I suspect you haven't been in a real serious relationship so you don't have a hand to lay down. And that's not a knock to you, dude, but like EN above said, you have much to learn. Hop into a real relationship with someone you really care about. Your thought processes may change. Later, QD.

I am young and have not been in a serious relationship, but I'ved learned a lot from other people and their mistakes. My thought process might change one day, probably, but for now I think that the closer you are with someone, the more you should and would trust them. Thus based on that assumption I would think it would be acceptable behavior for my wife to go to a taco mac or something similar to hang out with a group of people that includes some guys.

I just realized where I may have mistaken what we're arguing about, I was think that this said "girl" was with a group of people. If the girl is going to a bar with a single guy as if on a date for any reason she's a slut end of story.

[quickdodge®]

I just realized where I may have mistaken what we're arguing about, I was think that this said "girl" was with a group of people. If the girl is going to a bar with a single guy as if on a date for any reason she's a slut end of story.

There we go, lolol. Later, QD.

And you can't base your entire life around your friend's lives, man. My life actually improved twofold when I got married to my current wife. Before I was married to her, I could barely support my own damn self. Now, I've been the sole income earner for the last seven years. Your life is your life; not your friends. But if you know yourself that you're not ready, then it's good that you don't take that leap. Later, QD.

[msanch24]

cleveland steamer that bitch