Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ View Post
It doesn't matter if she is or is NOT having a sexual relationship with anyone else. There is ZERO reason why a female needs to accompany a male to bars and other outings if she is in a relationship. Especially one that is already as trying as a long, long distance one. Later, QD.
I believe that relationships are based on trust, and that is is the foundation for a successful and happy relationship. If that's the case, one should be allowed to go to a bar(s) with the opposite sex even though they're in a committed relationship. What I'm typing now isn't referring to this thread or the op though as his gf(ex gf?) has already proven to be untrustworthy. I don't see the problem with going to a bar as long as she is not being shady or giving you a reason to distrust her.

You should be able to trust your gf to go to a bar with guys, and also trust her in that she cares about you enough not to get too drunk or do something stupid. Girls can cheat on you whenever with whoever they want, so if she wants to cheat on you, she will so there's no sense in trying to control her. If she acts shady though, dump that ho.