I don't even like the idea of Valentine's Day. In my opinion, random acts of kindness on days not specified to be "holidays" are much more effective, meaningful, and appreciated. Cheap candy (marked up 500%), overpriced flowers, and greeting cards filled with someone else's words are nice gestures, but not for me. If you really want to show me that you love me, be dedicated to me on days that you aren't "forced" or "expected" to be.