Just sayin:

[BABY J]

As in I can't find a good relationship from someone. CHILDREN!

People often mirror what they get. So maybe you aren't offering a good one to them either. There is nothing worse than a woman who THINKS she is a good woman when she isn't.

[ilovemyhonda.]

People often mirror what they get. So maybe you aren't offering a good one to them either. There is nothing worse than a woman who THINKS she is a good woman when she isn't.

Okay, let's see. I am Itialian and I have a big toosh. I have a full time job. I pay my own bills. I have my own apartment. I have my own car. I take care of my son. I am pretty simple if you ask me. SOOOOOOO, guys are clearly the one's with the issues!

[MistaCee]

Okay, let's see. I am Itialian and I have a big toosh. I have a full time job. I pay my own bills. I have my own apartment. I have my own car. I take care of my son. I am pretty simple if you ask me. SOOOOOOO, guys are clearly the one's with the issues!

Ok you put down the positives now truly think about the negatives and work on them

[ilovemyhonda.]

Ok you put down the positives now truly think about the negatives and work on them

Honestly, you should know there isn't anything negative about me.

[MistaCee]

Honestly, you should know there isn't anything negative about me.

Pm me on how that is? Everyone has something they need to work on. Honestly.

[BABY J]

Okay, let's see. I am Itialian and I have a big toosh. I have a full time job. I pay my own bills. I have my own apartment. I have my own car. I take care of my son. I am pretty simple if you ask me. SOOOOOOO, guys are clearly the one's with the issues!

Congrats on bragging about NORMAL shit. LOL. This is average default normalcy that you're tossing up in the air like it's special. This is funny. This reminds me of people who want credit for shit that they should be doing already anyway.. LOL "FUCK YEAH I'MA GOOD MAN!! I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS!!!!!" Ummm... isn't that what you're supposed to be doing anyway you low expectation having fucker?

While the things you mentioned are great - they only say that you are self-sustaining and don't "depend" on a man or others to just basically go through life. These things say nothing about your personality and what you bring to the relationship. What makes a man want to choose YOU over the other women? What makes you the one he says "this is my lady" vs "yeah, I hit that". Make sense?

[ilovemyhonda.]

Congrats on bragging about NORMAL shit. LOL. This is average default normalcy that you're tossing up in the air like it's special. This is funny. This reminds me of people who want credit for shit that they should be doing already anyway.. LOL "FUCK YEAH I'MA GOOD MAN!! I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS!!!!!" Ummm... isn't that what you're supposed to be doing anyway you low expectation having fucker?

While the things you mentioned are great - they only say that you are self-sustaining and don't "depend" on a man or others to just basically go through life. These things say nothing about your personality and what you bring to the relationship. What makes a man want to choose YOU over the other women? What makes you the one he says "this is my lady" vs "yeah, I hit that". Make sense?

I mean I am not looking for some man to step up and be a dad to a kid that isn't his or take care of a kid that isn't his. And a lot times I hear guys that are friends and what not talk about how thier other half doesn't work, doesn't pay bills, doesn't clean or cook and this garbage, but they are still with them. So if I do all this stuff plus more, then what really is the problem? I know one issue I have that has been progressing and that was making a big deal out of little stuff, but other then that IDK what the problem is here.

[BABY J]

I mean I am not looking for some man to step up and be a dad to a kid that isn't his or take care of a kid that isn't his. And a lot times I hear guys that are friends and what not talk about how thier other half doesn't work, doesn't pay bills, doesn't clean or cook and this garbage, but they are still with them. So if I do all this stuff plus more, then what really is the problem? I know one issue I have that has been progressing and that was making a big deal out of little stuff, but other then that IDK what the problem is here.

While this sounds great - the BOTTOM LINE when u date a woman (serious relationship) who is a custodial mom to a kid less than 15 years old you DO become the quasi-dad, even if the dad is in the kids life. There is no way around that. 1 second it's hey can u watch him - i gotta pee. Next it's watch him - I need to run to wal-mart to get dinner. Next it's hey - I am late for work can u pick him up from daycare --- then can u watch him tonight since you're staying in and the girls wanna go grab drinks. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING - but truth be told that's the progression. Any man who takes on a SERIOUS relationship w/ a young child that is where it leads-- EVEN IF HIS DAD IS ACTIVE IN THE KIDS LIFE.

Maybe it's simply your attitude. Maybe the sex is not good. Maybe the sex is good but you aren't freaky as he is used to. Maybe you are too clingy - too possesive. Maybe his hobbies become YOUR hobbies and he doesn't get space. Maybe you have an attitude problem - it can be many things.

Whatever the answer is - it's more likely that the answer isnt "all men stink". If you date MMA fighters on a regular basis you just MIGHT get the shit choked out of you every now and then - LOL. It could very well be that you are the PERFECT woman but choose the wrong men. In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. Make sense?? So you want a professional man who makes 100k+ a year to see how it feels? Then you have to go to places where they are - places you have never been. Get it? You wanna attract a different "type" of man, be a different "type" of woman -- quite simple.

[ffxf50]

While this sounds great - the BOTTOM LINE when u date a woman (serious relationship) who is a custodial mom to a kid less than 15 years old you DO become the quasi-dad, even if the dad is in the kids life. There is no way around that. 1 second it's hey can u watch him - i gotta pee. Next it's watch him - I need to run to wal-mart to get dinner. Next it's hey - I am late for work can u pick him up from daycare --- then can u watch him tonight since you're staying in and the girls wanna go grab drinks. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING - but truth be told that's the progression. Any man who takes on a SERIOUS relationship w/ a young child that is where it leads-- EVEN IF HIS DAD IS ACTIVE IN THE KIDS LIFE.

Maybe it's simply your attitude. Maybe the sex is not good. Maybe the sex is good but you aren't freaky as he is used to. Maybe you are too clingy - too possesive. Maybe his hobbies become YOUR hobbies and he doesn't get space. Maybe you have an attitude problem - it can be many things.

Whatever the answer is - it's more likely that the answer isnt "all men stink". If you date MMA fighters on a regular basis you just MIGHT get the shit choked out of you every now and then - LOL. It could very well be that you are the PERFECT woman but choose the wrong men. In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. Make sense?? So you want a professional man who makes 100k+ a year to see how it feels? Then you have to go to places where they are - places you have never been. Get it? You wanna attract a different "type" of man, be a different "type" of woman -- quite simple.

Well-said.

[u8myore0]

While this sounds great - the BOTTOM LINE when u date a woman (serious relationship) who is a custodial mom to a kid less than 15 years old you DO become the quasi-dad, even if the dad is in the kids life. There is no way around that. 1 second it's hey can u watch him - i gotta pee. Next it's watch him - I need to run to wal-mart to get dinner. Next it's hey - I am late for work can u pick him up from daycare --- then can u watch him tonight since you're staying in and the girls wanna go grab drinks. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING - but truth be told that's the progression. Any man who takes on a SERIOUS relationship w/ a young child that is where it leads-- EVEN IF HIS DAD IS ACTIVE IN THE KIDS LIFE.

Maybe it's simply your attitude. Maybe the sex is not good. Maybe the sex is good but you aren't freaky as he is used to. Maybe you are too clingy - too possesive. Maybe his hobbies become YOUR hobbies and he doesn't get space. Maybe you have an attitude problem - it can be many things.

Whatever the answer is - it's more likely that the answer isnt "all men stink". If you date MMA fighters on a regular basis you just MIGHT get the shit choked out of you every now and then - LOL. It could very well be that you are the PERFECT woman but choose the wrong men. In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. Make sense?? So you want a professional man who makes 100k+ a year to see how it feels? Then you have to go to places where they are - places you have never been. Get it? You wanna attract a different "type" of man, be a different "type" of woman -- quite simple.

baby, the trash is piling up

[BABY J]

baby, the trash is piling up

* grabs my shoes * "Yes dear."

[AirMax95]

While this sounds great - the BOTTOM LINE when u date a woman (serious relationship) who is a custodial mom to a kid less than 15 years old you DO become the quasi-dad, even if the dad is in the kids life. There is no way around that. 1 second it's hey can u watch him - i gotta pee. Next it's watch him - I need to run to wal-mart to get dinner. Next it's hey - I am late for work can u pick him up from daycare --- then can u watch him tonight since you're staying in and the girls wanna go grab drinks. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING - but truth be told that's the progression. Any man who takes on a SERIOUS relationship w/ a young child that is where it leads-- EVEN IF HIS DAD IS ACTIVE IN THE KIDS LIFE.

Maybe it's simply your attitude. Maybe the sex is not good. Maybe the sex is good but you aren't freaky as he is used to. Maybe you are too clingy - too possesive. Maybe his hobbies become YOUR hobbies and he doesn't get space. Maybe you have an attitude problem - it can be many things.

Whatever the answer is - it's more likely that the answer isnt "all men stink". If you date MMA fighters on a regular basis you just MIGHT get the shit choked out of you every now and then - LOL. It could very well be that you are the PERFECT woman but choose the wrong men. In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. Make sense?? So you want a professional man who makes 100k+ a year to see how it feels? Then you have to go to places where they are - places you have never been. Get it? You wanna attract a different "type" of man, be a different "type" of woman -- quite simple.

THIS SHIT RIGHT HERE!!!!

[Tracy]

In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done.

Agreed. Dan is the complete opposite of any man I have ever dated. It was a conscious decision to try something different and it worked.

[PSINXS]

1. Enjoy your life. You only got one. Do it right cuz you get no second chances and you could die tomorrow.

2. Enjoy your life. You only got one. Do it right cuz you get no second chances and you could die tomorrow.

3. Don't look for a bf/gf. Live your life how YOU want to for YOU. The right person will go with your flow. Wanting is bad. When you start wanting stuff you start to settle for anything cuz you just want someBODY. Be happy in the moment. Shit gets old and lonely but you can be with somebody and still feel the same way

4. Did I say enjoy your life already?

fail Ppost!!!!! 1 n 2 are the same thing. i demand a recount.

[bodhi]

Okay, let's see. I am Itialian and I have a big toosh. I have a full time job. I pay my own bills. I have my own apartment. I have my own car. I take care of my son. I am pretty simple if you ask me. SOOOOOOO, guys are clearly the one's with the issues!

Those are all things that a normal, hard working american needs to do. You cannot live here without having a full time job, and here in Georgia your only means of transportation is either marta or in your case a honda civic.
You're a solo parent, so all those things cannot go unnoticed.
So you can pretty much scratch all those things as a good "persona shaper."

A big toosh??!!?! That's nice, but guys who normally put effort into a chick with a "big toosh" are only after one thing--and that's their pussy. Once they've had a taste of it they would most likely just get bored and move on to the next chick. It's the cunt-cycle. We (males) are pretty simple, and very easy to understand... so are women, but your problem might be that you get too hooked on a guy, too soon. He might only be looking for a good time, not to be a step father. I mean think about it. What guy wants to bang a chick and stick around KNOWING that she has a kid? The answer is NONE.

[PSINXS]

Those are all things that a normal, hard working american needs to do. You cannot live here without having a full time job, and here in Georgia your only means of transportation is either marta or in your case a honda civic.
You're a solo parent, so all those things cannot go unnoticed.
So you can pretty much scratch all those things as a good "persona shaper."

A big toosh??!!?! That's nice, but guys who normally put effort into a chick with a "big toosh" are only after one thing--and that's their pussy. Once they've had a taste of it they would most likely just get bored and move on to the next chick. It's the cunt-cycle. We (males) are pretty simple, and very easy to understand... so are women, but your problem might be that you get too hooked on a guy, too soon. He might only be looking for a good time, not to be a step father. I mean think about it. What guy wants to bang a chick and stick around KNOWING that she has a kid? The answer is NONE.

its not the guys. might need to take a look at yourself.

[xxbckiexx]

Okay, let's see. I am Itialian and I have a big toosh. I have a full time job. I pay my own bills. I have my own apartment. I have my own car. I take care of my son. I am pretty simple if you ask me. SOOOOOOO, guys are clearly the one's with the issues!

All i heard in that sentence was "I'm arrogant, I'm a grown ass women who can take care of myself, and I don't need no man lookin after me! I'm independent, I N D E P E N D E N T WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT ME?!" That's probably why you can't find a man. All the things you listed have no bearing in a working relationship, with a man that's supposed to be the provider. Taking care of your son is the only thing you're obligated to do. Paying bills is a plus, but you should be more concentrated on sucking his dick and making him dinner. Lose the job, and get back in the kitchen. You take these helpful hints and you'll have a guy that will stick by you in no time.

[stormcrow]

[bdydrpdmazda]

thanks but.......no thanks, im out!

[ilovemyhonda.]

All i heard in that sentence was "I'm arrogant, I'm a grown ass women who can take care of myself, and I don't need no man lookin after me! I'm independent, I N D E P E N D E N T WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT ME?!" That's probably why you can't find a man. All the things you listed have no bearing in a working relationship, with a man that's supposed to be the provider. Taking care of your son is the only thing you're obligated to do. Paying bills is a plus, but you should be more concentrated on sucking his dick and making him dinner. Lose the job, and get back in the kitchen. You take these helpful hints and you'll have a guy that will stick by you in no time.