Quote Originally Posted by BABY J View Post
While this sounds great - the BOTTOM LINE when u date a woman (serious relationship) who is a custodial mom to a kid less than 15 years old you DO become the quasi-dad, even if the dad is in the kids life. There is no way around that. 1 second it's hey can u watch him - i gotta pee. Next it's watch him - I need to run to wal-mart to get dinner. Next it's hey - I am late for work can u pick him up from daycare --- then can u watch him tonight since you're staying in and the girls wanna go grab drinks. THAT IS NOT A BAD THING - but truth be told that's the progression. Any man who takes on a SERIOUS relationship w/ a young child that is where it leads-- EVEN IF HIS DAD IS ACTIVE IN THE KIDS LIFE.

Maybe it's simply your attitude. Maybe the sex is not good. Maybe the sex is good but you aren't freaky as he is used to. Maybe you are too clingy - too possesive. Maybe his hobbies become YOUR hobbies and he doesn't get space. Maybe you have an attitude problem - it can be many things.

Whatever the answer is - it's more likely that the answer isnt "all men stink". If you date MMA fighters on a regular basis you just MIGHT get the shit choked out of you every now and then - LOL. It could very well be that you are the PERFECT woman but choose the wrong men. In order to get something you've never had, you have to do something that you've never done. Make sense?? So you want a professional man who makes 100k+ a year to see how it feels? Then you have to go to places where they are - places you have never been. Get it? You wanna attract a different "type" of man, be a different "type" of woman -- quite simple.
Well-said.