Are the Pics ok?

[Julio]

Those pics can be use for good toilet paper...

Just a thought.

[man]

he who cares the least pulls the most pussy....

True, but some prefer quality over quantity...

[GirlieZ]

don't, its a trap!

i kid, i think if you are in a healthy relationship it should not have an effect. Insecurity is a bish and can ruin a relationship.

[quickdodge®]

i kid, i think if you are in a healthy relationship it should not have an effect. Insecurity is a bish and can ruin a relationship.

Lolol @ people blaming insecurity on this. Later, QD.

[SiRed94]

I think that out of respect for the person they are with, they should keep those kinds of pictures/memories to their own personal viewing only. Since they have a kid, it seems like they wouldn't being doing too much to fuck up the relationship they are in, being that nobody wants all that baggage anyways. Bold sumbitches are bold.

[1MP0RTL0V3R]

i dated a girl with a kid once it worked out ok but she wasnt over her ex and right now the girl ive been with for almost 2 years has her godson living with her and a little girl that she adopted. i have no problem with it because the boy has no father since he passed away and the little girl has no parents, it all depends on the person you are and how close you are to the kids. most people think it can be a bad thing dating someone with a kid but in reality a lot that ive known have grown up and the guys that they are with that arent the dads dont mind and there very happy together.

[SicStang03]

I have been with my GF for over a year and I still have pics of me and my ex on there.. making out and everything... I'm just too lazy to take them down... she has seen them, just never asked me to get rid of them... If she asked I would take them down no questions asked.

I think it's more a jealousy/insecurity thing honestly... If she is with you, you shouldn't care about some pictures.

[quickdodge®]

I think it's more a jealousy/insecurity thing honestly...

Lolol. I guess some people don't know the difference between respect and insecure. Later, QD.

[SicStang03]

Lolol. I guess some people don't know the difference between respect and insecure. Later, QD.

insecurity leeds to jealousy... can we agree on that?

So what's wrong with having a picture of your kid and the father up for the public to see?

[quickdodge®]

insecurity leeds to jealousy... can we agree on that?

We can definitely agree with that.

So what's wrong with having a picture of your kid and the father up for the public to see?

It's really in the eyes of each couple. I see it as a respect issue. There are certain things that are in the past that can be kept up for the now. Like the days of growing up and college days and events that take place in your life or whatever. Then there are things that are in the past that should just be kept in the past. Relationships such as marriages (with or without children), long relationships (with or without children) would be an example. Hail I used to think that the other should just toss any picture of an ex in the trash forever. But, especially with children involved, I see it a necessity to keep that kind of past for the children to have in their future. To see their parent from back then.

But as far as publicizing the pics for everyone to see just comes off as a disrespect to the person you are with now. It's like "I love you, but not enough to put my ex behind me" type thing. And I see where it can be a breeding ground for insecurity and jealousy. And that's not good for a relationship. So why have the pics up and cause strife in your time together when it would be so easy to put them away? Unless you really are NOT over that ex.

And I'm pretty sure most (if not all) parents have plenty of pictures of their children without the ex in them to show off. Later, QD.

[SicStang03]

We can definitely agree with that.



It's really in the eyes of each couple. I see it as a respect issue. There are certain things that are in the past that can be kept up for the now. Like the days of growing up and college days and events that take place in your life or whatever. Then there are things that are in the past that should just be kept in the past. Relationships such as marriages (with or without children), long relationships (with or without children) would be an example. Hail I used to think that the other should just toss any picture of an ex in the trash forever. But, especially with children involved, I see it a necessity to keep that kind of past for the children to have in their future. To see their parent from back then.

But as far as publicizing the pics for everyone to see just comes off as a disrespect to the person you are with now. It's like "I love you, but not enough to put my ex behind me" type thing. And I see where it can be a breeding ground for insecurity and jealousy. And that's not good for a relationship. So why have the pics up and cause strife in your time together when it would be so easy to put them away? Unless you really are NOT over that ex.

And I'm pretty sure most (if not all) parents have plenty of pictures of their children without the ex in them to show off. Later, QD.

You have some good points in there.. I guess everyone is different. For me, I could really care less... If the pics where already there before I came along, they can stay IMO... But if she is uploading them while she is with you than that could be a problem.

[quickdodge®]

. If the pics where already there before I came along, they can stay IMO... But if she is uploading them while she is with you than that could be a problem.

I can see that point as well. Later, QD.

[stillaneon]

It has nothing to do with insecurity. It has to do with Respect.

Nemo, you and I are in similar positions. My Girlfriend has 2 kids by another guy. I wouldn't have a problem with pictures of him being around, but she wouldn;t disrespect me that way.

If this becomes an issue, you need to sit down and talk to her, explain why you feel it is disrespectful and if she doesn;t understand and can't be somewhat respectful and remove them, then it may be time to go your seperate ways