Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ View Post
We can definitely agree with that.



It's really in the eyes of each couple. I see it as a respect issue. There are certain things that are in the past that can be kept up for the now. Like the days of growing up and college days and events that take place in your life or whatever. Then there are things that are in the past that should just be kept in the past. Relationships such as marriages (with or without children), long relationships (with or without children) would be an example. Hail I used to think that the other should just toss any picture of an ex in the trash forever. But, especially with children involved, I see it a necessity to keep that kind of past for the children to have in their future. To see their parent from back then.

But as far as publicizing the pics for everyone to see just comes off as a disrespect to the person you are with now. It's like "I love you, but not enough to put my ex behind me" type thing. And I see where it can be a breeding ground for insecurity and jealousy. And that's not good for a relationship. So why have the pics up and cause strife in your time together when it would be so easy to put them away? Unless you really are NOT over that ex.

And I'm pretty sure most (if not all) parents have plenty of pictures of their children without the ex in them to show off. Later, QD.

You have some good points in there.. I guess everyone is different. For me, I could really care less... If the pics where already there before I came along, they can stay IMO... But if she is uploading them while she is with you than that could be a problem.