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    Quote Originally Posted by Identity_Crisis
    Congrats Killer. I voted no for the reason that if you don't view your child as an accident then he/she isn't. Simple as that.

    On another note, I love the hypocrisy of some people! They want to cry about christians "shoving religion down everybody's throat" but they constantly try to correct everyone into believing what they believe, or don't or whatever. It's a hoot.
    Was that last part directed towards me?
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    Quote Originally Posted by stillaneon
    Was that last part directed towards me?
    not so much directed at anyone honestly. i'm just stating that i find humor in it. everybody wants to holler that they have other people's beliefs pushed onto them, but then want to turn around and do the same thing by denouncing everything that someone else believes just because they don't. It's ridiculous when you think about it.
    Who knows?

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    i dont think its an accident until you see how the kid turns out haha

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    i believe everything happens for a reason and this child will most likely help you become a better man in life! thats just my opinion

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    Quote Originally Posted by stillaneon
    Explain either way how it's an accident. If you know how to have sex, then you know the possible consequences.
    I know how to drive a car, I know the possible consequences, therefor I can't have an accident?

    I can't believe I actually have to post the definition!!

    ac·ci·dent (n.)
    An unforeseen incident

    Quote Originally Posted by Killer
    we were not planning on having a baby at this point in our lives
    ...Sounds like an accident to me!

    Accidents are not always bad, I'm sure the majority of people can agree as they were "accidents" themselves. Congrats Killer, best of luck!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Identity_Crisis
    not so much directed at anyone honestly. i'm just stating that i find humor in it. everybody wants to holler that they have other people's beliefs pushed onto them, but then want to turn around and do the same thing by denouncing everything that someone else believes just because they don't. It's ridiculous when you think about it.
    Show me the humor in any post that has been posted in here.

    Please.

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    Were the measures for birth control? The pill, condoms, etc?

    If you had unprotected sex, then its not an accident IMO....
    If the condom broke, then I could "consider" it an accident.

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    I agree with Tiff & Got Purp. Trust me, I'm sure more babies in the world are "not planned" vs being "planned." Hell majority of our asses wouldn't be on this damn forum if we were planned. As always the parents have a choice to abort, and I believe once you decide not to go that way, you've accepted that the child is going to be in your life. Hell I'm due in 3 weeks and he wasn't "planned" but I had the option to abort. I almost did, but once I saw the ultrasound and he was moving around, I couldn't do it. I couldn't find it in my heart. I couldn't be selfish and take a life, when it was our fault that we got pregnant in the first place. I couldn't fault an innocent life when it could have been prevented. And babies are a gift from God, so I accepted it, and I'm glad I did. The father and I are now closer than ever and it just brings out a side in a man you never thought he would have. So trust, its no accident. EVERYTHING happens for a reason.
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    shockingly if you blow a greasy load inside a womans vagina there is a strong possibility she will become pregnant.

    childbirth is as much a miracle or (something that is meant to be) as eating food and having a turd fall out of your ass. Show me a child that can keep there trap shut in a movie theater and THAT my friends would be a fucking miracle.
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    not an accident


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    Congratulations, wish you the best. Not an Accident.

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    Babies are not meant to be planned. PERIOD

    I know so many people who plan on having a baby and never have when. When they give up and say fuck it, we are just gonna fuck all the time, they have a baby.

    Babies are not meant to be planned.

    Im happy your excited. Thats the best you can do. Its work, but its well worth it.

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    congrats man

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    Quote Originally Posted by GOT_PURP
    anything like the gift of life, is never an accident. My wife and I have a wonderful 3 year old that was a "SURPRISE"

    I cherish every moment with my lil man and I wouldn't change a thing from the past. Congrats on becoming a soon to be father.
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    I would never consider a child an accident. Like Purp said, it may be a surprise, but certainly not an accident.

    Kyle, I must say I envy you some. You will soon have a new life entering the world. The product of you and your girl. That is truely wondorous. I am looking forward to the day that I too can tell the world that I'll be a daddy. I hope you cherish every second of it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DJ Maestro
    I would never consider a child an accident. Like Purp said, it may be a surprise, but certainly not an accident.

    Kyle, I must say I envy you some. You will soon have a new life entering the world. The product of you and your girl. That is truely wondorous. I am looking forward to the day that I too can tell the world that I'll be a daddy. I hope you cherish every second of it.
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    WAAAAAAAAAAAY OUTA LINE...THOSE ARE UNFORTUNATE SITUATIONS, JUST LIKE HAVING A CHILD WITH DOWN SYNDROME OR SOME OTHER KIND OF DEFIENCY. AT ANOTHER TIME, YEA I WOULD LOL AT THAT, BUT IN A SERIOUS SITUATION, THOSE CHILDREN, NOR PARENTS DIDNT EXPECT ANYTHING LIKE THAT. YOU MAYBE ATHEIST/AGNOSTIC OR WHATEVER, BUT CHILL OUT W/ THAT SHIT. ITS STILL HUMAN LIFE WHATEVER WAY YOU LOOK AT IT



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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammich
    WAAAAAAAAAAAY OUTA LINE...THOSE ARE UNFORTUNATE SITUATIONS, JUST LIKE HAVING A CHILD WITH DOWN SYNDROME OR SOME OTHER KIND OF DEFIENCY. AT ANOTHER TIME, YEA I WOULD LOL AT THAT, BUT IN A SERIOUS SITUATION, THOSE CHILDREN, NOR PARENTS DIDNT EXPECT ANYTHING LIKE THAT. YOU MAYBE ATHEIST/AGNOSTIC OR WHATEVER, BUT CHILL OUT W/ THAT SHIT. ITS STILL HUMAN LIFE WHATEVER WAY YOU LOOK AT IT
    No. If there WAS a God we wouldn't have to ever lay our eyes on such things. I just wanted to make that clear --the only way I know how.

    I can tolerate God-talk for only so long.

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    I'M TALKIN HUMAN LIFE TALK



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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammich
    I'M TALKIN HUMAN LIFE TALK
    Human life isn't anything special, dude.

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    WE DIFFER IN THAT DEPT...



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    IF LIFE ISNT SPECIAL, THEN WHY DO YOU, MANIAC, ALEX, EAT?



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    Quote Originally Posted by Sammich
    IF LIFE ISNT SPECIAL, THEN WHY DO YOU, MANIAC, ALEX, EAT?
    You're not understanding what I was really referring to. What I meant by human-life - I meant it as all of us -- as a species. I wouldn't stop eating because it's my human nature to eat, survive and reproduce. There is nothing 'special' or magical about my life. I'm nothing when you look at existence through a bigger point of view.

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    I'll never understand the point of putting personal stuff on IA.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GOT_PURP
    anything like the gift of life, is never an accident. My wife and I have a wonderful 3 year old that was a "SURPRISE"

    I cherish every moment with my lil man and I wouldn't change a thing from the past. Congrats on becoming a soon to be father.
    +1

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    I agree w/ Alex.

    A child DESERVES to be planned - PERIOD. Life is tough enough as it is. No child deserves to be a "woops" - that's how I view it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BABY J
    I agree w/ Alex.

    A child DESERVES to be planned - PERIOD. Life is tough enough as it is. No child deserves to be a "woops" - that's how I view it.

    Cheers to that.


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    not planned = accident......plus anything you do that requires great responsiblity on your part automatically qualifies it for accident status :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hulud
    I'll never understand the point of putting personal stuff on IA.

    But thats just me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maniacc
    Human life isn't anything special, dude.
    YOU may not be anything special, but that doesn't apply to everyone else

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    Quote Originally Posted by shagwAg3n
    YOU may not be anything special, but that doesn't apply to everyone else
    well I mean think about, there are almost 6billion people on earth, what makes the birth of another one individual so special?

    I dont see what people dont understand existentialism, the extent of relevance and meaning a person is able to achieve is proportional to his/her realm of influence.

    Some of you should really read up Nietzsche, it sad how American society has embraced a existential subconscious disposition and mentality, and consciously contradict themselves through ignorance and blind faith.


    Killer Congrats on the baby, for your and your significant others sake, and the sake of your babies future, please be 100% sure that you are ready for a baby to enter your life.

    Like Baby J said, life is tough enough as it is, no need to bring something into this world just because it just happened.
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    Ask yourself this...

    Do you REALLY think that you have enough figured out about this rock that you can be SOLEY responsoble for an entirely new human life? Do you think you have enough figured out about YOURSELF that you are ready for this challenge? OBVIOUSLY you aren't even ready to handle sex safely to prevent an unplanned kid - NOW all of a sudden you "got it" good enough to be a parent?

    I'm not knocking you man - I am just saying that you're already irresponsibly becoming a parent. That's something to consider in itself. That doesn't mean that you can't elevate and be the best parent ever --- but I am 100% aware that my mom didn't do herself any favors by having me. It didn't take me long to figure that out - if I was terminated I'd be none the wiser.

    People say all the time "I can't make that decision - I can't terminate." To me, that person makes the decision that THEY can live with --- but remember, your kid has to live w/ that decision too.

    Good luck man.
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    ^^ EDIT ^^
    "I'm not a gynecologist... but I'll take a look."


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    Quote Originally Posted by BABY J
    Ask yourself this...

    Do you REALLY think that you have enough figured out about this rock that you can be SOLEY responsoble for an entirely new human life? Do you think you have enough figured out about YOURSELF that you are ready for this challenge? OBVIOUSLY you aren't even ready to handle sex safely to prevent an unplanned kid - NOW all of a sudden you "got it" good enough to be a parent?

    I'm not knocking you man - I am just saying that you're already irresponsibly becoming a parent. That's something to consider in itself. That doesn't mean that you can't elevate and be the best parent ever --- but I am 100% aware that my mom didn't do herself any favors by having me. It didn't take me long to figure that out - if I was terminated I wouldn't be none the wiser.

    People say all the time "I can't make that decision - I can't terminate." To me, that person makes the decision that THEY can live with --- but remember, your kid has to live w/ that decision too.

    Good luck man.
    He'll be fine and will make a great dad. He will learn as he goes. Of course now he is forced to change his life for the betterment of his child, but I am confident he is up to the task. It doesn't help to tell him what he could have done or should have done, instead the best thing now is to wish him the best and give him positive advice to help him along the path he has ultimately set out upon.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Killer
    Let me ask ya'll this, as many of you know i recently found out i was going to be a father.. and well, yes.. i'm scared and worried BUT i've also never been more happy or excited about anything in my life..

    I've got a great family and so does my gf...

    No, we were not planning on having a baby at this point in our lives BUT there is also no way i could consider a gift like this an accident..

    what do ya'll think??? considering i'm in a loving and healthy relationship, we both have full time jobs, we're not meth heads or alchies, and the baby is gonna have a great loving family...

    is it an accident??
    When I got pregnant, I knew that Maximus would be well taken care of by me and my side of the family... The father has always and will always be a piece of shit... He signed away his rights and disowned his son... We were together for 5 years and he still did that...

    Anyway, I have never and will never think of Maximus as an accident or a mistake. He's my life. He's the reason I wake up in the mornings. Yes I struggle every day being a single mom, but he has been the biggest blessing I've ever received.

    So, no, I don't at all think it's an accident. Especially when you see the joy he/she brings to your life.
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    Oh and don't listen to the fuckers on this site... they all told me I'd be a shitty mom and "lost respect" for me... Fuck the haters.. Do your thing Daddy. You will be just fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiff-O-Bitties
    Oh and don't listen to the fuckers on this site... they all told me I'd be a shitty mom and "lost respect" for me... Fuck the haters.. Do your thing Daddy. You will be just fine.
    no one is hating girl, it would just be a tragedy to bring a child up in a home that breaks.

    You may love your child unconditionally, but dont you think it would of been a much better situation where you child would have both mother and father there for guidance when the realities of life begin to hit?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheProfiteer
    no one is hating girl, it would just be a tragedy to bring a child up in a home that breaks.

    You may love your child unconditionally, but dont you think it would of been a much better situation where you child would have both mother and father there for guidance when the realities of life begin to hit?
    I definitely think it would have been better for Max, no doubt. One day he will have a father, but until then, he's good with it being just him and me. He gets insanely jealous when another guy even comes in the picture.. it's kind of cute.

    But yes, as far as the "hating" went... I remember receiving PM's with pictures of coat hangers, abortion hotline numbers, suicide hotline numbers, etc... There was a lot of "hating" when I told everyone I was pregnant.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiff-O-Bitties
    I definitely think it would have been better for Max, no doubt. One day he will have a father, but until then, he's good with it being just him and me. He gets insanely jealous when another guy even comes in the picture.. it's kind of cute.

    But yes, as far as the "hating" went... I remember receiving PM's with pictures of coat hangers, abortion hotline numbers, suicide hotline numbers, etc... There was a lot of "hating" when I told everyone I was pregnant.
    now thats just wrong, its your choice, and only yours. Why would anyone else care, maybe it was your baby's daddy putting his IA friends up to it, and if that was the case he really is a douche bag.

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    lmfao @ the person who deleted my post - the one that contained the 'abominations.'

    Some people are too fucking soft. Someone un-delete it. I know supermods can still read it. Shit, it wasn't even that bad. Buncha cumtrons..

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