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Honestly my family tried to make the best of a bad situation. My grandfather wasn't much of a father and he had some demons of his own. I am the type of person that lets things go easy and moves on. Life is too short to be unhappy. I never really grew up with grandparents so this is probably why it didn't strike a chord with me. But like i said i just really wonder how people like this feel when they die? I know if i lived such a life i would be so full of regrets on my death bed death couldn't come soon enough.

I am very thankful that I have a good relationship w/ my parents and most of all my brothers.
Kind of a scary prospect since at that point in your life you can't do anything about it, you just lie there with your guilt pressing down on you.

I think that's a cultural thing for us, do whatever you want in the moment and it'll work itself out before too long. But you have to think about how stuff will change your future. I know a girl who got into a spat with a good friend of hers over something legitimate, but they didn't want to work it out at the same time (like one would be ready to bury the hatchet, but the other wouldn't, and then it'd flip). It ended up that one of the girls died in a car accident and they hadn't spoken in months. No closure with your best friend of xx years.

I feel like some times you need to stick to your guns on stuff like that, but you said it: life is too short. In the fast I have apologized to/brushed off stuff that wasn't entirely my fault because it simply isn't worth it. Who's to say who will be alive/dead tomorrow.