Do you and your family/friends say "I LOVE YOU" to each other?

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11-13-2008, 11:27 AM
Red_Phoenix

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Originally Posted by Sammich

SO ARE YOU TELLING ME, THAT IF I SIT THERE FOR 30MINS ASKING HER TO SPEAK THE FUCK UP AND THEN JUST GIVE UP I WASNT PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO GET IT OUT OFHER?..THATS THAT BS...CUZ BY THEN IM ALREADY FED UP

Yeah you do. It shows how man you are are that you care. You work on your car for 30 min trying to figure out whats wrong. We want the same:goodjob:
11-13-2008, 11:28 AM
VooDooXII

Occasionally. I don't say it every time I say bye to my mom or dad...but you know.

One of my cousins says it to me which sort of throws me off because I'm not expecting it. She's like sixteen. I'm really close with my cousins/extended family...just sayin'. I guess a lot of foreign families are like that.
11-13-2008, 11:29 AM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Red_Phoenix

Yeah you do. It shows how man you are are that you care. You work on your car for 30 min trying to figure out whats wrong. We want the same:goodjob:

MY CAR CAN GET FIXED IN 30MINS, BUT THE WOMAN WONT SPEAK THE FUCK UP IN THOSE 30MINS, THEYLL BE LIKE "NOTHING"
11-13-2008, 11:30 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Sammich

SO ARE YOU TELLING ME, THAT IF I SIT THERE FOR 30MINS ASKING HER TO SPEAK THE FUCK UP AND THEN JUST GIVE UP I WASNT PERSISTENT ENOUGH TO GET IT OUT OFHER?..THATS THAT BS...CUZ BY THEN IM ALREADY FED UP

No, ask her - if she doesn't tell you then, give it a few, then ask her again... Women are rational in the sense that we don't want to speak when we're upset for fear of hurting your feelings... Ya know?

Ex: When I'm mad at someone I will straight tell them, to their face, that I hope they die a slow painful death... I don't want to ever say that to someone that I truly care for, ya know? So we just sit there quietly or tell you to "fuck off" or something until we've cooled down and then we talk it out. Although, usually, when it's time to talk it out, the guy has already forgotten (or plays like he has) and then doesn't want to listen. Plus, no one likes being critiqued (especially men) therefore they will do anything and everything to get out of trouble. :yes:

Note: Sammich, if you tell any woman to "speak the fuck up" when she's already mad, that's grounds for her to murder you with words.. I highly recommend NOT doing that!
11-13-2008, 11:33 AM
Friggintitsman

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Right. I agree. It's tough to find someone that's good for us both. If I like someone and Max doesn't, or he doesn't treat Max like I want him treated - I say PEACE!

Sorry, I'm guilty of stereotyping... :(

NOT ALL MEN are simple and stupid, just MOST of the ones I've encountered have been. :crazy:

Also, when women say "nothing is wrong" meaning "you've fucked up" - and you realize this, it means that you DO understand that you've done something wrong (even though you may be completely oblivious to the fact that you've done something wrong), BUT when you aren't persistent enough to find out what you've "done wrong" (according to her) then it looks like you don't care or you're just writing it off as her being an irrational, emotional, game playing, and/or retarded woman. Ya feel me? :thinking:

All women want, in a relationship, is for the other person to care (or at least act like they do) and if that means when she gets upset, you have to practically force it out of her, then that's what you should do. ONCE AGAIN, Communication and trust are the keys to every successful relationship... (Sex is just a perk!);)

Edit: Told you we're complicated.:yes:

Men should not have to try to guess what is wrong. If I ask one time and she gives me that "nothing" shit. I either don't ask again, try to cheer her up, or just flat out say "come out with it". Screw forcing it out her, if she can't flat out tell you then it's not worth bothering about.

(Sex is just a perk!);)
lol not in my relationship. Sex is a daily activity, but of course my girl is a total nympho. This is one reason why I don't have to ask what is wrong. I know that if we haven't banged in over 24hrs there's the problem right there. Sex IMO is 50% of a relationship. If you are with someone and sex is awful then it translate into the rest of the relationship, because you are sexually frustrated. If you are with someone that is great in bed but doesn't stimulate you in any other way well then you have a prolem there too.
11-13-2008, 11:34 AM
Friggintitsman

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Originally Posted by Mr. KiDD

Im so taking notes

PM the cliff to GKtib
11-13-2008, 11:36 AM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

No, ask her - if she doesn't tell you then, give it a few, then ask her again... Women are rational in the sense that we don't want to speak when we're upset for fear of hurting your feelings... Ya know?

RATIONAL IN THAT SENSE..MAYBE I CAN UNDERSTAND NOT SPEAKING WHEN UPSET...BUT ALL THE TIME?

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Ex: When I'm mad at someone I will straight tell them, to their face, that I hope they die a slow painful death... I don't want to ever say that to someone that I truly care for, ya know? So we just sit there quietly or tell you to "fuck off" or something until we've cooled down and then we talk it out. Although, usually, when it's time to talk it out, the guy has already forgotten (or plays like he has) and then doesn't want to listen. Plus, no one likes being critiqued (especially men) therefore they will do anything and everything to get out of trouble. :yes:

I RESENT THAT..I DNT MIND BEING CRITIQUED, I ASK TO BE CRITIQUED, BUT THERES ALSO A WAY TO CRITIQUE TO PISS SOMEONE OFF

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Note: Sammich, if you tell any woman to "speak the fuck up" when she's already mad, that's grounds for her to murder you with words.. I highly recommend NOT doing that!

LOL I DIDNT SAY THOSE EXACT WORDS BELIEVE ME, I DO MY ABSOLUTE BEST NOT TO CURSE, CASE IN POINT, I WALK AWAY:goodjob:
11-13-2008, 11:37 AM
Vteckidd

In all seriousness, not every relationship is meant to last, not everyone is meant to be together.

There are so many factors going on in terms of personal goals, career, outlook on life, commitment, etc.

Its hard for the "stars to align" perfectly that you can truly sit there and say you can spend the rest of your life with the other person. Thats why in most cases it only happens ONCE.

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.

but it may also just give you insight into what you REALLY like and dislike. I mean it shapes you to be the person you should be when you do finally get married. It helps you choose the mate that best suits you, IMO.

Can women be totally whack, yes, and so can men. Ive been on both sides of the coin. We all have our demons, we all have our issues.

ALot of times its about RESTRAINT and talking things out. not flying offthe handle and making a bigger issue out of something that doesnt need to be an argument.

But i like to think eventually we find that other person that brings out the best in ourselves.

/Dr. Phil
11-13-2008, 11:38 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Friggintitsman

Men should not have to try to guess what is wrong. If I ask one time and she gives me that "nothing" shit. I either don't ask again, try to cheer her up, or just flat out say "come out with it". Screw forcing it out her, if she can't flat out tell you then it's not worth bothering about.

(Sex is just a perk!);)
lol not in my relationship. Sex is a daily activity, but of course my girl is a total nympho. This is one reason why I don't have to ask what is wrong. I know that if we haven't banged in over 24hrs there's the problem right there. Sex IMO is 50% of a relationship. If you are with someone and sex is awful then it translate into the rest of the relationship, because you are sexually frustrated. If you are with someone that is great in bed but doesn't stimulate you in any other way well then you have a prolem there too.

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:
11-13-2008, 11:41 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Mr. KiDD

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.

:eek: I'm taking notes now!!!

Dr. Phil :lmao:
11-13-2008, 11:41 AM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Mr. KiDD

In all seriousness, not every relationship is meant to last, not everyone is meant to be together.

There are so many factors going on in terms of personal goals, career, outlook on life, commitment, etc.

Its hard for the "stars to align" perfectly that you can truly sit there and say you can spend the rest of your life with the other person. Thats why in most cases it only happens ONCE.

Men and Women are both complicated. some of us more than others. I dont think anyone under the age of 25 REALLY knows what they want. Most people arent mature enough to know, or just dont care. Dating is dating, it can be fun, and it can lead to that special person.

but it may also just give you insight into what you REALLY like and dislike. I mean it shapes you to be the person you should be when you do finally get married. It helps you choose the mate that best suits you, IMO.

Can women be totally whack, yes, and so can men. Ive been on both sides of the coin. We all have our demons, we all have our issues.

ALot of times its about RESTRAINT and talking things out. not flying offthe handle and making a bigger issue out of something that doesnt need to be an argument.

But i like to think eventually we find that other person that brings out the best in ourselves.

/Dr. Phil

MATURITY IS A HUGE MOTHERFREAKING FACTOR FO SERIOUS

I'M NOT MATURE BY FAR, BUT I'M MATURE TO THE POINT OF WHEN I AT LEAST KNOW WHEN THINGS GO DOWN TO TALK ABOUT IT SENSIBLY
11-13-2008, 11:41 AM
Motivation

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:

lol, sounds like you need a cold shower now. :lmfao:
11-13-2008, 11:42 AM
Vteckidd

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

:eek: I'm taking notes now!!!

Dr. Phil :lmao:

i said MOST, not ALL :D

What i mean is how many people at the age of 18-25 have had enough ADULT experience with the other sex to KNOW WHAT THEY WANT?

VERY FEW.

I just dont believe in getting married unless its 1000% perfect for both sides. I see too many people rush to getting married at 18,19,20,21 etc and they end up being miserable, or they just dont know the other person well enough.

Id rather get to know someone, and really be into them before i jump into a relationship.

but then this girl comes along and totally fucks all that rational thinking up LOL
11-13-2008, 11:44 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Motivation

lol, sounds like you need a cold shower now. :lmfao:

:lmfao: Damn it!! Gotta change my pants.. LMAO!:lmfao:
11-13-2008, 11:45 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Mr. KiDD

i said MOST, not ALL :D

mmmmm.. hmmmm... You just wait til 4 O'Clock! JUST WAIT!:D

Edit: It just turned from "bad boy" to "dirty boy" LMAO!:lmfao:
11-13-2008, 11:46 AM
Got Milk?

I tell my mom i love u all the time.
11-13-2008, 11:46 AM
Motivation

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

:lmfao: Damn it!! Gotta change my pants.. LMAO!:lmfao:

:lmao:
11-13-2008, 11:53 AM
MistaCee

Yes. You never know when you'll lose them or they lose you so its good to let them know.
11-13-2008, 11:55 AM
Friggintitsman

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

1st Part: Women translate that into: He doesn't care, why am I with him? He's such a loser and an idiot........ BUT the sex is great - Make-up sex.. that's what we should do.. I'll just attack him and rip his shirt and pants off with my teeth and... (sorry, I had this visual in my head and was playing on that... :lmfao: )

2nd Part: Oh I feel ya, I totally am a nymph too, don't get me wrong, but I can make myself just as happy with a toy as I can with a man/woman/dick/tongue/whatever!!!:yes:

LMAO Women get all the good toys, you have men, women, fingers, tongue, fruit, nipple clamps, stirrups, rubber fists, er eh... whatever. Sorry got carried away. Guys we don't get any of the fun stuff to please ourselves. Hookers and hand jobs is about it for men.

I agree with MR KIDD. Serious relationships under the age of 25 are about 90% bullshit. The human brain isn't even developed enough to know what you could possibly want. Every year I get older and I look back and say to myself damn I didn't know shit back then.
11-13-2008, 11:56 AM
Motivation

Back on topic, I completely agree that you should tell your family you love them. I have found out that when they are gone, you will look back and wish you got to tell them at least one more time, and wonder if they really knew that you loved them. I felt the exact same way when I lost my dad when I was 14... The thing I hate the most is when a kid tells their parents they "hate" them, just cause they didn't get their own way. Too many people take it for granted... It's something you can't get back, so let them know while you still have them...
11-13-2008, 11:56 AM
Ed

this thread got cereal...
11-13-2008, 11:56 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Friggintitsman

LMAO Women get all the good toys, you have men, women, fingers, tongue, fruit, nipple clamps, stirrups, rubber fists, er eh... whatever. Sorry got carried away. Guys we don't get any of the fun stuff to please ourselves. Hookers and hand jobs is about it for men.

I agree with MR KIDD. Serious relationships under the age of 25 are about 90% bullshit. The human brain isn't even developed enough to know what you could possibly want. Every year I get older and I look back and say to maybe damn I didn't know shit back then.

:lmfao: I'll rep you when I can!
11-13-2008, 11:57 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Ed

this thread got cereal...

Hi Ed...

*Insert Julia Roberts Voice Here* Can I call ya Eddie?:D
11-13-2008, 11:58 AM
Ed

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Hi Ed...

*Insert Julia Roberts Voice Here* Can I call ya Eddie?:D

haha

*threadjack start*

hey, how are you doing?
11-13-2008, 11:59 AM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Ed

haha

*threadjack start*

hey, how are you doing?

I'm good! Actually, I'm SUPERTASTIC!!! How are you?! How's Tori?! How's ya Mama an em?
11-13-2008, 12:00 PM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

How's ya Mama an em?

*STEPS IN*

THAT HOE IS FANTASTICULAR
11-13-2008, 12:00 PM
Kevykev

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Originally Posted by Ed

*threadjack start*

Actually that happened hours ago. :no:

Props to those who contributed. Saying it to your parents are a Must.
11-13-2008, 12:01 PM
Jaimecbr900

I'm not going to even remotely start on one of my rants about how some of you are sooooooo off base it's not even funny. So I'll keep that part to myself.....for now.:ninja:

As for Mr. Kevy Kev's original question:

I tell my family and a couple of friends (ladies) that I love them on a regular basis. Why? Because I do, simple enough. It's a good thing to know that you're "loved".
11-13-2008, 12:01 PM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Kevykev

Actually that happened hours ago. :no:

Props to those who contributed. Saying it to your parents are a Must.

Sorry Kev.. You know you've enjoyed reading. lol!:yes:
11-13-2008, 12:02 PM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900

I'm not going to even remotely start on one of my rants about how some of you are sooooooo off base it's not even funny. So I'll keep that part to myself.....for now.:ninja:

As for Mr. Kevy Kev's original question:

I tell my family and a couple of friends (ladies) that I love them on a regular basis. Why? Because I do, simple enough. It's a good thing to know that you're "loved".

Do tell.. Do tell..:boobies:
11-13-2008, 12:05 PM
Ed

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

I'm good! Actually, I'm SUPERTASTIC!!! How are you?! How's Tori?! How's ya Mama an em?

I am pretty good. I just got back to work. I haven't been here since friday, i took mon-wed off for vacation and my bday.

She's pretty good too. Buffalo was pretty awesome. I had a good time,

but back on topic, yeah...
11-13-2008, 12:07 PM
Sammich

I TELL MY SIS I LOVE HER
11-13-2008, 12:18 PM
Friggintitsman

Most of my family has some sort of expiration date.
Brother= dead (car accident)
Sister=lupus
Mom= Heart problems
Dad=Diabetes
Mom's father=Heart
Mom's mother= crazy
Dad's mother= Diabetes
Dad's father= dead (murdered by his mistress)

Issues my family has em

So yeah I tell my family I love them every time I get a chance. I never know when it will be the last time I talk to them.
11-13-2008, 12:22 PM
Sammich

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Originally Posted by Friggintitsman

Dad's father= dead (murdered by his mistress)

:eek: I DONT THINK I SHALL SEEK A MISTRESS AGAIN:lmfao:

RIP THO
11-13-2008, 12:24 PM
Jaimecbr900

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

Do tell.. Do tell..:boobies:

I don't know......I'm still trying to figure out why I haven't EVER gotten this phone call right here.......:ninja: :D NM?????!!!! ;)

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

My family is really big on that too Kev. I'm huge on telling my friends too! I just think everyone deserves to know that they are loved by someone...

But isol guud!!!! I see how it is.......:tongue1: :ninja:

~crosses his arms and taps his feet~
11-13-2008, 12:25 PM
Friggintitsman

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Originally Posted by Sammich

:eek: I DONT THINK I SHALL SEEK A MISTRESS AGAIN:lmfao:

RIP THO

Yeah man adultery is serious bidness. It happened long before I was born.
11-13-2008, 12:29 PM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900

I don't know......I'm still trying to figure out why I haven't EVER gotten this phone call right here.......:ninja: :D NM?????!!!! ;)

But isol guud!!!! I see how it is.......:tongue1: :ninja:

~crosses his arms and taps his feet~

lmao!! I do NM! LOL!

I LOVE YOU, JAIME!!!
11-13-2008, 12:37 PM
Kevykev

Nice Love shout outs in this thread, Nice big one from Tiff to Jaime.

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Originally Posted by Friggintitsman

Most of my family has some sort of expiration date.

Everyone in this world had an expiration date, You can be healthy and still get merked by some random person on the streets. :no: Of course we all know that though.

Damn i just noticed the drama you posted about your dad's dad.
11-13-2008, 12:41 PM
Tiff-O-Bitties

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Originally Posted by Kevykev

Nice Love shout outs in this thread, Nice big one from Tiff to Jaime.

He was practically asking for it!!

Since I'm a woman, I can read those cues.. :D

I LOVE YOU TOO, KEV!!
11-13-2008, 12:51 PM
Jaimecbr900

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Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

He was practically asking for it!!

Since I'm a woman, I can read those cues.. :D

So you taking it back now????

Aight.....you getting a smack down next time I see you.......watch and see, winch!!!:tongue1: :D

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