The girl I'm dating and I had plans tonight to make dinner together, have some wine and just relax together before she heads down to valdosta for the weekend(we both attended there, she's a Chi Omega and is going to see old friends). The girl she's riding down with got someone to cover her work shift tomorrow and they are now leaving tonight...which means our plans our now cancelled..She called to "make sure it was okay"..as if I were to stop her. She was so excited about leaving tonight she actually just seemed like she didn't care as to what I would say, even though knowing how I am I'd just say "take off"..Which is exactly what I did. The MOMENT I said, "I'm not mad, have fun..I'll see ya monday", she said "great! I'll ttyl!" and hung up..

Okay, you would think she'd be SLIGHTLY more concerned with what I was thinking than she is...I'm pretty freaking irritated to be honest, and she thinks I'm not because I told her I wasn't. Do I have the right to be considering we aren't actually together? We dated over a year ago, and things didn't work out due to distance...what do ya'll think?