should I be mad?

[Reaper]

The girl I'm dating and I had plans tonight to make dinner together, have some wine and just relax together before she heads down to valdosta for the weekend(we both attended there, she's a Chi Omega and is going to see old friends). The girl she's riding down with got someone to cover her work shift tomorrow and they are now leaving tonight...which means our plans our now cancelled..She called to "make sure it was okay"..as if I were to stop her. She was so excited about leaving tonight she actually just seemed like she didn't care as to what I would say, even though knowing how I am I'd just say "take off"..Which is exactly what I did. The MOMENT I said, "I'm not mad, have fun..I'll see ya monday", she said "great! I'll ttyl!" and hung up..

Okay, you would think she'd be SLIGHTLY more concerned with what I was thinking than she is...I'm pretty freaking irritated to be honest, and she thinks I'm not because I told her I wasn't. Do I have the right to be considering we aren't actually together? We dated over a year ago, and things didn't work out due to distance...what do ya'll think?

[imbosile]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.

[Reaper]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.

Exactly, my thinking right now is life goes on...**** happens..

[ksniperfox]

still, she sounds unconcerned and bitchy. **** a ho while shes out. if she comes back and says she did, atleast you can too. and it wont hurt so bad. and if she says nothing, you say nothing and get some free tang. win/win

[BKgen®]

Women...

I'd get a hitman if i were you.

[BobbyFresco]

That's tough, but I think you have a right to be upset and I know I would have probably done the exact same thing you did. Part of you wants her to know you're mad, but the other half of you doesn't want to ruin her weekend.

It sucks, but I say just suck it up. You never know, one day you may have to do the same thing she's doing to you.

I agree...There's only so much you can do in a situation like this. She asked knowing fully well that you weren't going to object.....

On the other hand, without knowing at what stage in your relationship you guys are in, it's hard to decide if she was being uncaring about how you may have felt.

Take this weekend to have some fun of your own.

[BobbyFresco]

Women...

I'd get a hitman if i were you.

LOL....I've felt that way before as well.......

If it wasn't for pu$$Y, they wouldn't have shyt on us....

[On_Her_Face]

The girl I'm dating and I had plans tonight to make dinner together, have some wine and just relax together before she heads down to valdosta for the weekend(we both attended there, she's a Chi Omega and is going to see old friends). The girl she's riding down with got someone to cover her work shift tomorrow and they are now leaving tonight...which means our plans our now cancelled..She called to "make sure it was okay"..as if I were to stop her. She was so excited about leaving tonight she actually just seemed like she didn't care as to what I would say, even though knowing how I am I'd just say "take off"..Which is exactly what I did. The MOMENT I said, "I'm not mad, have fun..I'll see ya monday", she said "great! I'll ttyl!" and hung up..

Okay, you would think she'd be SLIGHTLY more concerned with what I was thinking than she is...I'm pretty freaking irritated to be honest, and she thinks I'm not because I told her I wasn't. Do I have the right to be considering we aren't actually together? We dated over a year ago, and things didn't work out due to distance...what do ya'll think?

drop her like its hot, seriously.

[On_Her_Face]

EDIT, i'm a dumbass, yall arnt together, just dont talk to her for a bit.

[TheChosenOne]

This is a perfect chance to get the upper hand. Play it cool on the phone, but have a subtle disturbance to your voice. Then, when you see her, be cold. Then all you have to wait for is the classic question;

"Baby, what's wrong?"

That's when you've got her.

[redrumracer]

wow all i got out of that was that she said ttyl instead of talk to you later.
but na dont be mad. she asked you responded how she knew you would, shouldve said what you really meant instead.

[Reaper]

This is a perfect chance to get the upper hand. Play it cool on the phone, but have a subtle disturbance to your voice. Then, when you see her, be cold. Then all you have to wait for is the classic question;

"Baby, what's wrong?"

That's when you've got her.

Thats exactly what I did..and will do

[Reaper]

EDIT, i'm a dumbass, yall arnt together, just dont talk to her for a bit.

which is why when she asked if i'll call her this weekend, I said maybe...and I won't call her..after a little time to think about it...**** it..she can have fun, I'm hitting up the bar tomorrow night with some friends and saturday too:boobies:

[Reaper]

On the other hand, without knowing at what stage in your relationship you guys are in, it's hard to decide if she was being uncaring about how you may have felt.

we dated almost 2 years ago, we're crazy about each other....but we are taking time just b/c she just got out of a relationship....so yeah, its just enough to **** with your emotions

[On_Her_Face]

i still wouldnt call the hoe.

[Reaper]

i still wouldnt call the hoe.

I'm not....she can call me..she wants to hang out monday..which is fine but she can come to me..I'm not putting fourth any effort, no matter how much I like fake tits lol

[On_Her_Face]

good ****.

[Vayda]

I think you should only be mad if you can say with 100% total honesty that you would not do the same to her. If so, then be pissed all to hell.

[DieselNuts]

I would be upset, but I guess the best thing for you to do is to talk to her about it when she gets back.

[Reaper]

I think you should only be mad if you can say with 100% total honesty that you would not do the same to her. If so, then be pissed all to hell.

I wouldn't do it to her...I'd put things off...but thats just how I am. I'm not as mad as I was before, but im still pretty irritated...some friends from UGA are coming into town tomorrow(all girls) and apparently were going bar hoping tomorrow..

[imbosile]

I wouldn't do it to her...I'd put things off...but thats just how I am. I'm not as mad as I was before, but im still pretty irritated...some friends from UGA are coming into town tomorrow(all girls) and apparently were going bar hoping tomorrow..

I could be wrong, but that sounds like an argument waiting to happen.

[Jecht]

I would be pissed. lol

[Got Milk?]

well this is what u do to get her back.

Make some big plans for u and her. Than later when the time comes, cancel the plan and be like "i gotta go hang out with my friends". this will make her upset, end of story.

[tony]

Damn the games, how about just telling her how you feel? Argue, get over it then have good a** makeup sex.

[AnthonyF]

Do you need me to call some people?

[Reaper]

Do you need me to call some people?

lol

naw, but maybe saturday if we all go out!


as far as everyone else, im sure it is an argument waiting to happen...but arguments w/us =makeup sex...I tend to win so yeah..

and I'll tell her how I feel when she gets home, I don't feel like arguing over a phone...I hate doing that ****

[AnthonyF]

good luck. u know Ive been in the same situations as u. give her her space....if nothing happens....you found a good one. when she comes back. dont question her immediately but try to notice how she speaks or looks away

[Reaper]

good luck. u know Ive been in the same situations as u. give her her space....if nothing happens....you found a good one. when she comes back. dont question her immediately but try to notice how she speaks or looks away

yeah I know, and thanks buddy I appreciate it!

[JITB]

Damn the games, how about just telling her how you feel? Argue, get over it then have good a** makeup sex.

agree...


or u can just take the anger and frustration out on that ass monday night!! :idb:

[Reaper]

agree...


or u can just take the anger and frustration out on that ass monday night!! :idb:

oh I shall

[Got Milk?]

this reminds me when my gf planned for us to go to Destin. And at last minute i told her i dont want to go. hahahah

[AnthonyF]

^destin FTW...me and Reaper went there last year, i have a condo there. it'd be bad ass if there were a bunch of us down there.

[81911SC]

Noods?

[Got Milk?]

^destin FTW...me and Reaper went there last year, i have a condo there. it'd be bad ass if there were a bunch of us down there.

yea Destin is awsome. But at the moment i wasnt feeling good so i called it off(but she went with her sister and some other friends).


Planning on going this summer again.

And u have a ****ing condo down there? As in your condo u own it? If yes, thats pretty sweeet.

[AnthonyF]

my parents own it. ill be going for spring break and then a week in the summer then on my birthday. usually get a few weeks off.

[Got Milk?]

Damn dude, ur so lucky to have a condo down there.

[3.5altman]

oh snap! I forgot to make that phone call ant!

[hydroshutter]

[hydroshutter]

but seriously, get a keylogger on all of her accounts (myspace,facebook, etc) and snoop around. You'll get personal satisfaction out of invading her privacy.

[AnthonyF]

oh snap! I forgot to make that phone call ant!

u dummy. There are people there now that rent it every year...and spring break its rented by my parents. So, i gotta find a good week to go wit some poeple.