Quote Originally Posted by HIgH_ScHoOL
Not to be cocky but I think I am a "good find" is maybe why I have a harder time understanding this...
Dan is a pretty good find, IMO. He has put up with my shit for 7 years and most people wouldn't do that for 1 second .

That being said, he doesn't take the trash out, he doesn't do the yard, he doesn't cook or clean......I do all of that and work. I'm a little nervous of what will be expected of me once and if we have kids. I would totally benefit from marriage, like I already mentioned, for security purposes. I an a one man woman. I want kids. I want the whole pretty picture. The only way for me to do that is to get married. Mind you, once I get married I may be miserable because I no longer have the freedoms I once had before marriage and a lot more will be expected of me responsibility wise. I feel like Dan is my responsibility and we aren't even married yet.