OK My boyfriend isn't a slacker, he's got a job, preparing for college, and doesnt drink or do drugs of any sort. They have random reasons for not being too fond of him at the moment. Oh and I've been with the guy for over 2 years now.

When I said I wanted to make my own choices, I meant that I think they should trust my judgement and stop treating me like i dont know what's right for me. I'll listen to their advise, but the ultimate decision should be mine.