I have a question. How do we REALLY decide who to give the money to? I'm about to get personal to prove a point. So get ready. My brother is a crack head. Been a junkie since he was 9, yes 9 he started huffing gas. he is now 30. Been in and out of jail his whole life, robbed Dan and I at gun point, had a kid, never given him a dime, got married to another crack head, they had her kid taken away from them by the state.
THEY GET FOOD STAMPS RIGHT NOW WITH 0 CHILDREN TO CARE FOR. EVEN WORSE, TAKEN FROM THEM FOR BEING INCAPABLE.
WTF? Ok, so he had a very rough life. Our parents were junkies and abusive. We were in and out of foster homes most of our childhood. Somehow, I have never been a crack head, have never been in jail, never had a kid. Instead I made my own life. never dwelled on the past and have never blamed anyone. In fact, I have forgiven my parents and we now talk like nothing ever happened.
So, the idea here is that we both came from the same set of circumstances, yet we are polar opposites. Why didn't his able bodied ass get his life together and become a productive human being? He was very handsome (runs in the family) had all his fingers and toes and a shot at the American Dream....just like me.
So, how do we decide who deserves the money from MY BUSINESS? Who decideds that Brandon will have to cut back after all of his years of loyalty to us so that he can feed my brother who has never contributed to anyone or anything or been loyal to one fucking person in his life?
I hope maybe my story personifies this topic for everyone.




) had all his fingers and toes and a shot at the American Dream....just like me.
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) not be forced to lay people off, or downsize his business.

