Alright well I figured out where the IACV was and tried cleaning it with WD40
Im just waiting to go get some liquid gasket and maybe some carb cleaner

I was looking at the ECU and I noticed on the back there was a idle speed/control thing you can turn with a flat head, should I adjust that? Ive never heard anyone else speaking about that.

Also, I have a SOHC, where is the EGR valve, and could I just cap it off?