
Originally Posted by
XterraChic
so are you two implying that an adult is who they are b/c of they way they were raised? i'll tell you.. i had an f'ed up childhood.. but i am a (sometimes) saine person.. i have my crazy moments but i would never take that out on anyone.. physically at least..
again.. off topic but i dont think grown adults can use the excuse "i had a bad childhood" forever.. i mean hell.. my dad was a complete asshole.. a horrible man.. grew up w/o him for the majority of my life.. but i dont blame anyone.. i live and learn.. so yes i feel bad for people when they have fucked up things happen to them.. but that does not constitute them killing/hurting people when they grow up.. its not a valid excuse in my book..
some people if abused enough reach their breaking point.. yes i believe that.. but if you are gonna do your research.. do all of it.. not just your side.. b/c im sure there are children who have grown up in normal circumstances with nice homes.. good parents.. never been in trouble.. and one day they snap and go shoot up their school..