Quote Originally Posted by tony
While your post is true its a bit non productive, I can empathize with him/her since I am a single parent myself (I do take well care of my son though) it is redundant to say don't have two kids. Yeah, it'd be stupid to not use protection from here on out but really.. why not address the situation from now going forward rather than what should have been done.

Not flaming ya.. just saying, people do put themselves in situations where they could have used better judgement, but they didn't. Just leave it at that.. its nothing to get frustrated over.
If you want to have kids, then by all means have kids, just make sure you can fully support them first. If you make a poor decision, thats understandable, but don't try to confront or deride others when they give suggestions like "try to have a reasonable budget".