^^ Very well said.

The ability to say 2 things is what separates men from boys - these 2 things are applicable to EVERY area in life - not just racing. Those 2 things are:

1) no

2) goodbye

The man (or woman) who sees the ability to say these 2 things (AT THE RIGHT TIME) in their lives and see these 2 things as a Godsend will have a better life - PERIOD. Know when to say "no" - AND MEAN IT. Also know when to say "goodbye" - and MEAN IT.

Sounds simple but it will take your life to an entirely different level to master those 2 things.

Imagine a callout that you're scared of or just want no part of... and your answer is "NO". There is nowhere for it to go after that. You might get 2 pages of BS and general douchebaggery but it DEF won't be 20 pages. The "goodbye" part is simply cleaning out the trash (people/places) that mean you no good and hold back your progress - they go hand in hand.