I read this....and once I have kids, I will still spoil the crap out of them. However I will instill the same method I raised myself on. Working your ass off for what you want. You work your ass off, I will get you a cell phone and you will pay some of the bill. My child is expected to bring home A's and B's....you do not get a "treat" for a good report card. Your report card is suppose to be good.
That's when I have kids of course
