Hmm...well, I've decided I'll probably end up single for life...so...Originally Posted by 90_ZC_HATCH
Hmm...well, I've decided I'll probably end up single for life...so...
JDMadness ==>EvasiveEF9
girls are easy
the old saying goes "girls don't know what they want"
...well... you just have to take that and tell them what they want. lol
90ZC, why did you stop typing in my AIM box?
-jonathan
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Jesus Christ is my Savior
You guys talk on Aim!?!? I'm jealous...
I tried that. She broke with me. The next one I tried letting do whatever she wanted. Apparently that was "too much" freedom.
I guess I just haven't found the happy medium...?
JDMadness ==>
ben, you'll find the right one bro, it just takes compromise.
like, i think you and my gf feel the same, bout not trusting the opposite sex, but you're never gonna find the right one unless you find one ya can trust.
idk
but yea, my gf doesn't want me joking around w/ girls and huggings girls, i told her that was bull****, told her i'm tired of the jealousy crap, blah blah blah, she mad she didn't get her way, but she said she doesn't care about it anymore.
hopfully she'll just let it go and be cool w/ it and TRUST me!!!!!
but, i can only hope...lol
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When girls say they don't care, it just means they're too pissed to talk about it...LoL
It's not that I don't trust them...anymore. Cuz see, the way I see it...if we're not official, or anything, then she and I have no worries about the other. So if she gets with another guy, that's ok! And it's ok, also, because since we're NOT official, I don't feel like I've really "lost" anything, and I don't get attached. Therefore, I don't have to ever NOT trust her.
My logic makes sense. Date girls. Have fun with girls. Don't get into a relationship...leads to heartbreak.
Win-win situation.
JDMadness ==>
lol, eventually you'll have to get in a relationship ben, but i see what you mean.
most guys in a relationship envy what you have, lololol
LoL, I'm in a relationship. I love my car. And she loves me. Even when green-carded bastards in taxi-cabs knock the face over a half inch...
Let's get real for a minute...envy what I have? What do I have...?
JDMadness ==>
like, not being tied down, not worring about wondering what their girl is doing, ya know.
basically, being single, not having to care about anything, ya know.
hahahahahaha
90ZC.... *sigh*....
whatever shall we do with you?
-jonathan
Jesus Christ is my Savior
lol jonathan, you know exactly what i mean.
ur single, for a few days, lol. dont you feel like a huge weight is lifted off your shoulders. like you dont hafta worry about sum1 nagging about you working on your car?
you know exactly how i feel, dont try to say you dont, lol.
being single and being in a relationship both have their benefits man.
Sounds great, doesn't it?
...cuz you're wrong.
Spent two years in a relationship. And the majority of the time, I thought "damn, that other girl's cute...damn me for being in a relationship" and basically LOOKING for reasons I didn't wanna be in a relationship. But I stayed in the relationship, nonetheless. She picked up on all this. Granted, she became a whore towards the end of the relationship, but to make this explanation simple, let's pretend she was a great girl. Anyways...we split. That was about a year and a month ago. During the first month of being single, I realized how much I enjoyed having the security of knowing someone was there and cared about me...and wanted it back. The second through fourth month, I couldn't have wanted her around more...even if it took an arguement with her to get it. The next several months were mixed emotions.
Now...I sit here...still single. A year and a month later. I finally cut all ties with her and realized that (again, forgetting she was a whore, and pretending she was all of the good with none of the bad) the time I'd wanted to be single was just human nature of wanting more. When it came down to it...I wanted to have it back (the good...not the bad).
So...if that at all makes sense, I hope it does. Bottom line is she WAS a whore...and unfortunately, I gave up a GREAT girl to be with her (who is now engaged to some tattoo artist...wtf...) But if I could REALLY have what I wanted...I'd have someone to love, to hold, to trust, and confide in. Security, knowing I've got someone to come home to. And knowing I can trust that yeah, she may go to the club, she may dance with some other guy...but she's still coming home to me (that is...she doesn't kiss or sleep with him, or anything...)
I don't know. I wish I had someone to love, hold, trust, and be with, and call mine. Someone to keep me company in the basement when I stay up til 5am working on the car for the entire freezing month of december.
Yeah, it's great...I'm single, I can date/kiss/sex-up...do whatever with whatever chick crosses my path. But there's still somethin' about the sense of having someONE at home that I wish I still had. (again...not a whore, though) I may seem awesome-happy-go-lucky-baller-ben...but seriously? I'm ****ing miserable I don't have someone to confide in, and curl up with.
Take my advice. Hold her close, love her tight, and pretend she's all you've got if you really care for her. Have your fun...and let her have hers. Just know that you're always coming home to each other. And if it ends...there's more out there...she's not the only chick. But she is SOME chick. One that you'll remember how she treated you, and how you treated her down the road...
There was a time I had 16girls I was dating, and I was sleeping with 6 or 7 of them. (Not sure how I still don't have STD's...or a kid...) And I thought it was FRIGGIN' awesome...and if I lost one, oh well. I didn't care. I look back, now. God damn, I wish I hadn't done what I'd done to half of them. Some of them I'm still in contact with. Some married, some engaged, some dating others. Some gorgeous, some making success. I'm happy (and surprised) they still talk to me. I'm glad for the ones who have made something of themselves...but just about every one of them I wish like hell I'd treated better, and wished I had another shot at it...
Oh, well...live and learn...
Now...back to the "player" Ben ya'll have come to know...
....**** BITCHES!
JDMadness ==>
...nevermind, I just remembered why I hate females. Spice girls "wannabe" just came on my limewire...
Girl-friends (not girlfriends) visit me when I work on the car... I've got two monitors in my basement to keep me company (aka, music, movies, IA, HT, and helms) and so the girls ALWAYS jump on and download ****...apparently spice girls was their thing that night...LoLoL
JDMadness ==>
ik what you mean ben, i plan on holding onto my girl for a long time. i love her to death, but i just want her jealous ways to change.
ANYWAYS, i just remembered i have an essay due in exactly 10 hours....midnight papers w/ no sleep FTL!!!
She'll probably settle into comfortability with time...
Get your paper done. I know about not sleeping. I'm about to pick up a second job. I'll be working 330am til 5pm, soon...
JDMadness ==>
fuuuuuuuuuuuck THAT.
i slapped that paper together in an hour w/ the help of jonathan.
it's just a rough draft, but still for a grade.
Damn, I hated those grades. Grades for rough drafts are stupid. Why do I need to get graded to practice for a paper that will count for a grade?
JDMadness ==>
word, but w/e, gotta do it.
i'm out, peace.
oh i do! believe me brother, belieeeeeeeeve me. Thing is, even when we're not a "couple" per se', whenever she finds out that i was working on my car, she takes the opportunity to remind me that "i love my car more than her."
to which i usually reply "keep that up and i will".... anyways....
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-jonathan
Jesus Christ is my Savior
LoLoL...I told you. Back to baller-status Ben. **** girls...
It's funny, my two year relationship...before the relationship started, I said this...
"I want you to know that no matter how much I care about you...I mean no offense by it, but there will be times that my car takes priority over you. There will be a few times a date will be cancelled due to me working on my car. My car has been here for a while, and it'll be here when you're gone. It's my hobby, my passion, and my life. I'm sorry, it's just...how it is."
JDMadness ==>
lol damn, throwin the foot down!
Well...my car has been the cause of the end of a few relationships. Figured if she's gonna leave me because of my car, I may as well get it over with.
JDMadness ==>
I believe that goes for alot of people on here.
In my last relationship I loved the fact that she was into cars too. And she actually told me she was fine with me spending alot of time with my car.
But I guess she didn't count on just how much time I put into my hatch.
Because she actually called me while I was adjusting the valves, and basically told me she had enough and was leaving me.
holy ****.
just took a ride in my friends new H22 99 EK hatch....
hoooooooly ****. lol he just took it up a hill, realy big steep hill and we were ****ing hauling ass, i almost **** myself. speedo didn't work, but if i had to guess, we were doing a good 1-120.
afterwords he tells me he doesn't have a license, lol.
quick question....
is a 91 CRX and 90 hatch front brakes the same?
i'm asking because i need brake pads BAD.
yes, the front rotors are the same diameter
-jonathan
Jesus Christ is my Savior
chyea!
got sum bitchin brake pads ordered, along w/ my new lip...
I've got some DA fronts if you're interested
JDMadness ==>
lol didn't we discuss this a long time ago?
oh wait, that was DA rears...
Yeah, I've got those, too...
LoL.
And a 15/16" MC...
JDMadness ==>
Hrmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........
Saturday.....................................
Ben ur goin to the mountains?
I was. Not anymore. Never made it. Bought driving shoes, instead.
As of now, I have planned to be up at Hooters of Kennesaw to watch the AUBURN/LSU game.
JDMadness ==>
nothin popin on the Squad forum today...
...I'm recovering from my headache/hangover...
JDMadness ==>
I"m too busy not having a life other than living in my garage working on my POS.
-jonathan
Jesus Christ is my Savior
Your POS loves you for it...
JDMadness ==>
Oh, BTW, I bought some new driving shoes...they're pretty FTW, if I may say so. I went old skool. Pumas for the win...
JDMadness ==>
pumas eh?
i wanted to get sum pumas, but i opted for a nice set of Adidas/goodyears
I'm actually looking at getting some of those, too. Just could only afford one pair as of right now. I opted the pumas because they were a tighter fit with softer leather, and thinner bottoms. Plus the compound seems a little more soft... Not to mention they were a little more narrow.pumas eh?
i wanted to get sum pumas, but i opted for a nice set of Adidas/goodyears
I'll be getting the GY/Adidas before too long. There's like three or four pairs I'm looking at. Hell, I may just buy them all...LoL
I wanted to find some like...pink pumas...cuz that'd be just be effing AWESOME.
JDMadness ==>
I'm straight enough to wear pink shoes. Are you not?
JDMadness ==>
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