Sounds like you need to scope out the VIPstylecars.com , Memoryfab.com , VRwheels.com, vwvortex.com, nicoclub.com, and there are a few others but those are the best by far. Also check other forums with cars that would rock similar offsets... IE any 350Z forum, G35, acura TL, Lexus GS's and others.

But like previously stated, you gotta pay to play.. This wheel game isnt cheap!!!! Not for the faint at heart.