so you go from a stage 1 to stage 3? why not a stage 1 extreme, or a stage 2, still over kill, and dear, im sorry, but ur boyfriend having the motor functions of a embryo doesnt mean most people cant drive a stick, and how would you know it wasnt gripping if your dumping it? and revvin it up while shifting. i stand by my previous statement. tell him to get a automatic and go back to whore eyeland.