Is the grass greener on the other side!?

**RL...** · 03-31-2010, 10:11 AM

Is it?

I'm facing a dilemma, I have a gf of 3-4 months now but as every day passes it is harder and harder to commit. I've always had a problem being in a relationship not because I'm a bad bf, quite the contrary, but I can never stay with one girl too long because there so many other pretty girls out there.

I miss being single but should I stick with my gf and not let this get to me, or should I find out if the grass is greener on the other side.

It's like the 80/20 rule which means at any time all you're going to get from your gf/wife is 80% of what you need, but if you try to find that other 20% in someone else you will be giving up the 80%....

I just don't want to give up 80 for 20, but that 20 is looking so fine!!!

So from your experiences is the grass greener on the other side?

**punkr6** · 03-31-2010, 10:15 AM

NO, it's the exact same color....

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:16 AM

Honestly if you're not completely happy end it. I mean it's retarded to stay with someone just because. If other girls get your attention you don't need to have a girlfriend right now. Be single and have fun, settle down and do the loyal thing later.

**ilovemyhonda.** · 03-31-2010, 10:25 AM

If you have to ask this question, espcially on IA, then you probably aren't happy and should do what makes you happy. You can't make someone else happy if you aren't even happy.

**SlowEG9** · 03-31-2010, 10:28 AM

agreed with all the above.

Unless you plan on marrying this chick, play the field. If the 20% is getting to you like that, shes not the one homie.

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

If you have to ask this question, espcially on IA, then you probably aren't happy and should do what makes you happy. You can't make someone else happy if you aren't even happy.

Says the girl needing a vaginal inspection at the V....V....haha.

**Nerdsrock22** · 03-31-2010, 10:30 AM

Originally Posted by SlowEG9

If the 20% is getting to you like that, shes not the one homie.

Exactly. You'll know when you find her dude. The other 20% becomes irrelevant.

**SlowEG9** · 03-31-2010, 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by Nerdsrock22

Exactly. You'll know when you find her dude. The other 20% becomes irrelevant.

LOL i wouldnt say irrelevant...Ive been with my girl a year and a half and things are great but you gotta be stevie wonder not to look sometimes..its when you feel the need to ask this on a public forum is when you really need to reconsider

**Kevykev** · 03-31-2010, 10:43 AM

It's obvious man, why are you even asking this question? It's clear that You already know the answer.

What are you really looking for in this thread?

**ilovemyhonda.** · 03-31-2010, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by simontibbett

Says the girl needing a vaginal inspection at the V....V....haha.

says the homo who wishes he could do a vag insepction on me! home!

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by Kevykev

It's obvious man, why are you even asking this question? It's clear that You already know the answer.

What are you really looking for in this thread?

A GIRL.

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

says the homo who wishes he could do a vag insepction on me! home!

I don't wish. I've seen MUCH nicer vagina. Your vagina probably looks like a dark rocky tunnel with no end.

**ilovemyhonda.** · 03-31-2010, 10:50 AM

Originally Posted by simontibbett

I don't wish. I've seen MUCH nicer vagina. Your vagina probably looks like a dark rocky tunnel with no end.

Wow says the guy who has never seen my vagina, go stick a dick in your butt like you do everyday! whore!

**SlowEG9** · 03-31-2010, 10:51 AM

Originally Posted by simontibbett

I don't wish. I've seen MUCH nicer vagina. Your vagina probably looks like a dark rocky tunnel with no end.

Need pics of two said vaginas for second opinions

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:56 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

Wow says the guy who has never seen my vagina, go stick a dick in your butt like you do everyday! whore!

I wouldn't want to see your vagina if you paid me. It's a festival of strings of goo and white clumpy mountains.

My girlfriend doesn't have a dick to stick in my butt, plus I don't think I want anything stuck up my ass.

**quickdodge®** · 03-31-2010, 10:57 AM

Originally Posted by NissanTun3r

I have a gf

I can't past this part so I'm of no use here. Later, QD.

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

I can't past this part so I'm of no use here. Later, QD.

LOL.

I can vouch he's not gay but his game is HILARIOUSLY weak. Like seriously, he was hitting on these girls once and it was straight up funny as balls eating a hamster.

**RL...** · 03-31-2010, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by simontibbett

LOL.

I can vouch he's not gay but his game is HILARIOUSLY weak. Like seriously, he was hitting on these girls once and it was straight up funny as balls eating a hamster.

1) i was not hitting on mary nor her friend in that instance so that is invalid. I was not spitting game. See my game consists of standing in one spot looking pretty until a girl walks up then I act like she doesn't exist then she falls in love with me then i act like an asshole and she likes me even more. It works very well.

I'm not trying to be cocky but just telling it how it is I do very well for myself with girls... You all can think what you want. carry on.

**quickdodge®** · 03-31-2010, 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by NissanTun3r

See my game consists of standing in one spot looking pretty until a girl walks up then I act like she doesn't exist then she falls in love with me then i act like an asshole and she likes me even more. It works very well.

I'm buying none of that crap.

But good luck to you, OP, in whatever you decide. Later, QD.

**Got Milk?** · 03-31-2010, 11:11 AM

lol at you asking IA for advice.

**RL...** · 03-31-2010, 11:12 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

I'm buying none of that crap.

But good luck to you, OP, in whatever you decide. Later, QD.

I probably wouldn't buy it either. But I guess i'll attribute it to very good luck because for the last 4-5 years I've always had girls I was either dating or a gf. I do not know how but I never go out of my way to chase a girl, they always find me or chase me somehow...that's one aspect of my life which was always easy...

**quickdodge®** · 03-31-2010, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by Got Milk?

lol at you asking IA for advice.

I agree here. Questions like these on a site like this make me think of attention whores. Later, QD.

**RL...** · 03-31-2010, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by Got Milk?

lol at you asking IA for advice.

no i wanted your advice in particular

**SlowEG9** · 03-31-2010, 11:16 AM

Originally Posted by NissanTun3r

I probably wouldn't buy it either. But I guess i'll attribute it to very good luck because for the last 4-5 years I've always had girls I was either dating or a gf. I do not know how but I never go out of my way to chase a girl, they always find me or chase me somehow...that's one aspect of my life which was always easy...

Just throwing it out there but being in a relationship constantly probably isn't the best thing either...date around and what not but to be constantly in a exclusive relationship seems kind of codependent.

Just saying...

**ilovemyhonda.** · 03-31-2010, 11:18 AM

Simon you make everything seem nasty, I need to ingore you.

**Elbow** · 03-31-2010, 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

Simon you make everything seem nasty, I need to ingore you.

Everything is nasty.

**LvnBoOst** · 03-31-2010, 12:21 PM

I say you need to figure out what you want. You seem like you are never satisfied, which will come to bite you in the ass one day. Not saying you should settle, but if you are with a pretty, nice, smart girl...what more do you want? Constantly looking for the hottest girl you can find or the girl who is just a little cuter than your girlfriend is not a good idea....you will end up losing a great girl one day.....IMO.

**BKgen®** · 03-31-2010, 12:23 PM

Put it in her pooper.

**quickdodge®** · 03-31-2010, 12:24 PM

Originally Posted by LvnBoOst

I say you need to figure out what you want. You seem like you are never satisfied, which will come to bite you in the ass one day. Not saying you should settle, but if you are with a pretty, nice, smart girl...what more do you want? Constantly looking for the hottest girl you can find or the girl who is just a little cuter than your girlfriend is not a good idea....you will end up losing a great girl one day.....IMO.

How have you been? Later, QD.

**AlliRae** · 03-31-2010, 12:28 PM

all these really hot really attractive girls are also usually really high maintanence and while they may be good in bed - if you can't stand being with them then it will never last more than 3-4 months before you start looking for something new. You have to have a friend and be able to be around them for anything to last.

**LvnBoOst** · 03-31-2010, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

How have you been? Later, QD.

I have been great! School/work....that's about it. How are you?

**Bacon** · 03-31-2010, 07:11 PM

Pic of said current "gf"?.......

**loverboy_gnd** · 03-31-2010, 08:45 PM

Originally Posted by ilovemyhonda.

If you have to ask this question, espcially on IA, then you probably aren't happy and should do what makes you happy. You can't make someone else happy if you aren't even happy.

THIS!!!!! but from experience, the grass isn't greener, thats hormones and lust talking, we always seem to want what we cant have, and then if we get it, we get bored with it quickly, and if you play it like than then you'll never truly be satisfied. But if you happy with your girl, i say stay with her, but the fact that you have to question it... especially on ia, leads me to think youre not fully happy and if thats the case then move on jus my

**MINI** · 03-31-2010, 09:41 PM

Originally Posted by SVTsanctuary

Pic of said current "gf"?.......

SECOND!!!

**Bacon** · 03-31-2010, 09:53 PM

Well, if you are gonna make a thread asking this question, we need to see what the current one looks like.

**loverboy_gnd** · 03-31-2010, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by MINI

SECOND!!!

THIRD pics

**Miss.Kayla** · 03-31-2010, 10:12 PM

like mommy always says, sew your wild oats or else you will regret it in the long run

**Bacon** · 03-31-2010, 10:18 PM

Originally Posted by Miss.Kayla

like mommy always says, sew your wild oats or else you will regret it in the long run

And this is why I am marrying my best friend next year. Been together off and on for 8 years and now have a two year old son.

OP, if you aren't happy then get out. Don't go looking for other chics while you are in a relationship. It doesn't work out in the long run.

**Slow Motion** · 03-31-2010, 10:18 PM

If you have slept with more than one girl, you have already realized that most pussy is the same. Don't lie and say it's not. The only thing that differs is the girl, and the emotions that come with it. Us men do have emotional needs, it's not like a females but, the feeling you get talking to someone new is what you chase that is all...not really the pussy. The pussy just solidifies the feeling of accomplishment but, it's the same as what your gf has.

**JITB** · 03-31-2010, 10:38 PM

like i told u at tunerfest last year..... just be single...lol

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