Quote Originally Posted by Hulud
nah thats with the people behind the scenes that are supposed to let the band know whats goin on

most people dont know its a christian venue, damn i really am sounding like a broken record here
I don't know about you, but if I played in a band I'd like to know stuff if I'm going to be the one out on stage. So it's a don't ask don't tell type of thing? Why is it everyone else's responsability to tell and make things clear, yet they have no responsability themselves?


you dont make sense in your closing sentence. throughout the whole essay you wrote about it being the bands show and they are the performers, yet in your closing you say that its the venues show, so which is it?
You obviously are reading what you want to read in my post. Please point out where I said it was the "band's" show. I said it was their name, their reputation, their music.....so why wouldn't they be a little more proactive in finding out what kind of venue they're playing? A simple, "hey guys, are we in front of bunch naked women or are we in front of bunch of nuns?..." Is that too hard? Is that not COMMON SENSE? Why is the venue at fault for allegedly NOT telling, but they are cool for NOT asking???? It's a two way street, but you seem HELL bent on blaming only one side. Why is that?



but my whole point of this thread (since we seemed to get off topic as usual) is why did they get so bent outta shape over the word hell?
I answered that in my very first post. There's a time and a place for curse words. At a venue run by CHRISTIAN FOLKS is not the proper time. Just like it's not the time to have group sex, snort coke, or have an abortion with a coat hanger. It's just NOT COOL at that time. If you are at Hog's Breath Saloon in Daytona Beach with 1000 bikers, well then it's perfectly acceptable in that crowd.

What's the big deal anyway? Answer that. It's like you coming to MY house and tracking mud all over my carpet. I don't like that, so why should I LET you do it? I'm going to ask you NOT to do that. I may not have told you ALL the things that I like and dislike. It may even be ok at YOUR house, but not mine. Why would you be upset about that?