oh shiat, the exact same thing happened to me several months back. my ex went through all my shiat and seen some evidence that someone was trying to get at me, but I didn't respond to any of it. since I didn't make her aware of it she accused me of sorta lying.

me personally I still don't see it as lying. do you come home and tell your BF about every single incident where a guy hits on you? if you do, IMHO it's highly unnecessary because most guys in the ATL will hit on anything with a pair of tits, and a ass.