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    CHRISTIANITY AND "SEX"

    wrong / right good / bad yes / no

    what do you think, i ve been with the same girl for five and a half years, and weve had lots of sex, but now she feels its wrong and that we shoudnt, b/c she wants a closer relationship with god, im all for it if that is what she needs i want her to go for it. yeah it sucks for me cause no mre sex no more head no more even sleeping together in non sexual way, but if thats what she needs then i love her and i want her to go for it and im behind her 100 percent. BUT now its been two 4 weeks and im going crazy over wanting her but i hold back sometimes i get mad and she gets mad at me but ive gotten over it. then tonite she wears a short short skirt with no underwear and a tight little see through top with her boobs popping out and the whole time is talking about sex and how much she wants me and cant wait till we leave the restaurant, so im like what i thought you didnt want to, she says no im over it i want to its not bad, so we go home go at it like we never have before, then stop and she ffeeels bad and decides to back to not having sex anymore, so i feel used, i knew this would happen as soon as she got the urge we would do it but when i wanted to it was wrong what the fuck.so know i dont know what to do,

    i honestly dont feel me and her having sex is wrong i dont feel wrong or guilty after sex, with past girls i have but now with her i dont so i dont know what to do, us not having sex dosent make me feel as close to her anymore is that right or wrong or stupid i neeeeeeeed help and clues anyone
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    sux for u dude, just rub one off before u hit the sack
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    Quote Originally Posted by absoludely
    sux for u dude, just rub one off before u hit the sack


    but seriously it doesnt seem she is really serious about the no sex thing, so unless she becomes adament she wont get forgiveness for it
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    CHRISTIANITY AND "SEX"

    wrong / right good / bad yes / no

    what do you think, i ve been with the same girl for five and a half years, and weve had lots of sex, but now she feels its wrong and that we shoudnt, b/c she wants a closer relationship with god, im all for it if that is what she needs i want her to go for it. yeah it sucks for me cause no mre sex no more head no more even sleeping together in non sexual way, but if thats what she needs then i love her and i want her to go for it and im behind her 100 percent. BUT now its been two 4 weeks and im going crazy over wanting her but i hold back sometimes i get mad and she gets mad at me but ive gotten over it. then tonite she wears a short short skirt with no underwear and a tight little see through top with her boobs popping out and the whole time is talking about sex and how much she wants me and cant wait till we leave the restaurant, so im like what i thought you didnt want to, she says no im over it i want to its not bad, so we go home go at it like we never have before, then stop and she ffeeels bad and decides to back to not having sex anymore, so i feel used, i knew this would happen as soon as she got the urge we would do it but when i wanted to it was wrong what the fuck.so know i dont know what to do,

    i honestly dont feel me and her having sex is wrong i dont feel wrong or guilty after sex, with past girls i have but now with her i dont so i dont know what to do, us not having sex dosent make me feel as close to her anymore is that right or wrong or stupid i neeeeeeeed help and clues anyone

    that is without a doubt the most fuckin retarded thing i have ever heard..fuck god and not having sex..your outta your fuckin mind for being cool with that...any bitch says they wanna stop fucking to have a closer relationship with something that doesnt exist should be drawn and quartered..that is all!
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    christianity and sex dont mix. period! if she's serious about it(abstinence), and you care about her, then don't give in when she does want it. make her hold to her convictions. she'll respect you soo much more. or just do what i did and say "fuck christianity!" and get alllll you want lol. fo realz tho, sit her down and ask her to honestly think about it. whatever she decides, she'll feel comfy with. and then stick to that with her.
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    from what i understand ur not supposed to have sex untill ur married. Well, she already fucked that up so why go back?....
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    ^^^maybe she's trying to repent for her sins?
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    are u laughing at me for posting or my predicament
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    hm.. I know how she's feeling, but if she's gonna do it.. she should do it all the way...
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    Sex before marriage is wrong in christianity...I have done it and if I could go back and change it I would!...but you can't...
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    ^^^^with him...i did it and regretted it...repented and didn't again till i got married...gotta stick to your committment...
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    well its over now cause i left her last night cause i found out she was talking to another guy behind my back, so i dunno, we may get back together, i hope so cause its hard to throw a 5 year relationship away, but if it happens life goes on and hello ladies
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    well its over now cause i left her last night cause i found out she was talking to another guy behind my back, so i dunno, we may get back together, i hope so cause its hard to throw a 5 year relationship away, but if it happens life goes on and hello ladies
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    well its over now cause i left her last night cause i found out she was talking to another guy behind my back, so i dunno, we may get back together, i hope so cause its hard to throw a 5 year relationship away, but if it happens life goes on and hello ladies
    dude we are in the same boat but mine was going on 6 years and she cheated on me for like 2 months and finally told me like a dumbass i took her back things wont be the same dude youll question her all the time it just isnt the same we stayed together for like 3 months after that and she told me she still didnt break it off with the guy just like i thought dude imo just leave her alone i know it gonna be hella hard cause she has been your best friend for ever but its better this way trust me i had to learn it through lots of tears and heartache i felt so fucking bad for so long man but hey i found IA and met some real cool ppl to take my mind off it so it works well hit me up sometime mitch we really should hang out now dude now that we have this little thing in common.
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    CHRISTIANITY AND "SEX"

    wrong / right good / bad yes / no

    what do you think, i ve been with the same girl for five and a half years, and weve had lots of sex, but now she feels its wrong and that we shoudnt, b/c she wants a closer relationship with god, im all for it if that is what she needs i want her to go for it. yeah it sucks for me cause no mre sex no more head no more even sleeping together in non sexual way, but if thats what she needs then i love her and i want her to go for it and im behind her 100 percent. BUT now its been two 4 weeks and im going crazy over wanting her but i hold back sometimes i get mad and she gets mad at me but ive gotten over it. then tonite she wears a short short skirt with no underwear and a tight little see through top with her boobs popping out and the whole time is talking about sex and how much she wants me and cant wait till we leave the restaurant, so im like what i thought you didnt want to, she says no im over it i want to its not bad, so we go home go at it like we never have before, then stop and she ffeeels bad and decides to back to not having sex anymore, so i feel used, i knew this would happen as soon as she got the urge we would do it but when i wanted to it was wrong what the fuck.so know i dont know what to do,

    i honestly dont feel me and her having sex is wrong i dont feel wrong or guilty after sex, with past girls i have but now with her i dont so i dont know what to do, us not having sex dosent make me feel as close to her anymore is that right or wrong or stupid i neeeeeeeed help and clues anyone

    i've been there before man..... it sucks... except at times i was the one wanting to cut it off.... sex before marriage is a sin, but sometimes the flesh is stronger than ur will... if ya'll do get back together.. and ya'll both want a closer relationship with God.. then stop sexin.. trust me it causes more problems to have sex than it does to quit! but if u do slip.. just know God's there to take u back.. it happens.. we're not perfect...
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    Gosh, that does sound so very familiar. It is hard, especially when you love that person and want that intimacy with them... God can help, so yeah... If ya'll do get back together put God in the middle and try to stop. Pray or somethin when you feel tempted... My two cents.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kelly
    Gosh, that does sound so very familiar. It is hard, especially when you love that person and want that intimacy with them... God can help, so yeah... If ya'll do get back together put God in the middle and try to stop. Pray or somethin when you feel tempted... My two cents.
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    man thats jacked up!! i bet the bitch used god as the excuse while she was really getting some D from somewhere else man. some chick i was dating last year pulled the same shit. then like 4 months later she was like im pregnant. i was like "BWAHAHAHA, youre 3 months pregnant and we havent had sex in 6!!" so it was kinda irionically funny
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    "And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply..." - Genesis 1:27

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    bahhh after all of this you found you she is working some other guy bahhhh i would cram her bible down her throat and fuck her w/ a cross

    but that is just me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by admin
    bahhh after all of this you found you she is working some other guy bahhhh i would cram her bible down her throat and fuck her w/ a cross

    but that is just me.

    damn thats prolly the best post ive seen on here!! +1
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    Sex before marriage is a sin.. therefore, I am just "making love" LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by ISAtlanta300
    Sex before marriage is a sin.. therefore, I am just "making love" LOL
    nice try bud! lol!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ISAtlanta300
    Sex before marriage is a sin.. therefore, I am just "making love" LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by b18hatch
    man thats jacked up!! i bet the bitch used god as the excuse while she was really getting some D from somewhere else man. some chick i was dating last year pulled the same shit. then like 4 months later she was like im pregnant. i was like "BWAHAHAHA, youre 3 months pregnant and we havent had sex in 6!!" so it was kinda irionically funny
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    CHRISTIANITY AND "SEX"

    wrong / right good / bad yes / no

    what do you think, i ve been with the same girl for five and a half years, and weve had lots of sex, but now she feels its wrong and that we shoudnt, b/c she wants a closer relationship with god, im all for it if that is what she needs i want her to go for it. yeah it sucks for me cause no mre sex no more head no more even sleeping together in non sexual way, but if thats what she needs then i love her and i want her to go for it and im behind her 100 percent. BUT now its been two 4 weeks and im going crazy over wanting her but i hold back sometimes i get mad and she gets mad at me but ive gotten over it. then tonite she wears a short short skirt with no underwear and a tight little see through top with her boobs popping out and the whole time is talking about sex and how much she wants me and cant wait till we leave the restaurant, so im like what i thought you didnt want to, she says no im over it i want to its not bad, so we go home go at it like we never have before, then stop and she ffeeels bad and decides to back to not having sex anymore, so i feel used, i knew this would happen as soon as she got the urge we would do it but when i wanted to it was wrong what the fuck.so know i dont know what to do,

    i honestly dont feel me and her having sex is wrong i dont feel wrong or guilty after sex, with past girls i have but now with her i dont so i dont know what to do, us not having sex dosent make me feel as close to her anymore is that right or wrong or stupid i neeeeeeeed help and clues anyone
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    Quote Originally Posted by never2loud
    well its over now cause i left her last night cause i found out she was talking to another guy behind my back, so i dunno, we may get back together, i hope so cause its hard to throw a 5 year relationship away, but if it happens life goes on and hello ladies
    That';s what I suspect at first.DUmb ass bitch used religion as an excuse because she was cheating behind ur back.I understand her point if she's a virgin and doesn't wanna have sex bla bla bla, but if she already had sex with u and decidied to repent out of the blue...that's fishy...( this is from experienced.Been cheated on in every of my relationship)


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