i used to be pentacostal b/c of my family but i grew up got tire dof being yelled at in church by preacher saying im going to hell if i look at a woman the wrong way, id be smitten if i got a hard on before marrage, screw that im not stupid now i finally camee back to a free methodist kinda church in fayetteville and its awesome you dont get preached to you get talked to like a human being like a friend, not lectured and accused by someone who thinks b/c they are in front of the church they r better, this church shows you the good not the bad, yes they do talk about it but they are people just like you and me they know that so do you so they talk to you like taht and tell you theyr troubles and experiences b/c they know ur going through the same thing not you did what ur going to hell, so thats it in a nutshell