I like to be approached sometimes, and if I see someone I might be intrested in- I am going in for the kill. If either sex approaches someone, I think it means they are very independent and outgoing....and not afraid to put themselfs out there. I think its nice when a guy offers to buy you a drink, DONT GET HER DRUNK to take her home- but its a nice jesture to show her you are intrested and that you are taking a risk of possibly getting rejected or not....