When I have children, they will have the same access to the same knowledge I have, furthermore, the will have the same options of following whichever paths they choose in life. My wife, a believer of god, believes the same. But I refuse to take part in any kind of forced indoctrination.

This is definitely something I've thought long and hard about. I know that if I'm wrong in not believing in "god", and if it really is a god of peace and love, that I will be judged based on my actions during life and he will understand that I used my head and reason instead of blindly following dogma. If I'm wrong, and god is the same as depicted in the bible, then assuredly most of the people you know are going to burn in hell for eternity anyway, so we'll be in good company. If I'm right, then I'll have lived a great life, and raised children to know that it's ok to think for themselves.