Do you have kids?

[CHADbee]

This attitude my friend is why you will never grow up. You might think this whole car thing with the active lifestly is great, but nothing trumps having a kid. The day my son was born all my heavy car crazed days just sort of vanished, because I realized what the meaning of life was. So you keep saying you dont know if your every ready for kids, cause will what you posted you still are one.

thats your opinion, i cant say having kids and sitting at home with a wife on a saturday night watching sex in the city is better or worse than what i do now cause ive never experienced it. i do know a few months back i got out of a long term relationship and now im enjoying myself and having some fun. if you want to call me a kid solely on these statements then thats your issue but it doesnt bother me and ill keep being a grown ass single man with no kids that handles his business and loves his life. the biggest problem in my life is picking out a box of cereal at kroger once every two weeks and i dont want/need anything thats just gonna complicate my life beyond that

[quickdodge®]

i dont want/need anything thats just gonna complicate my life beyond that

A marriage is what you make of it. I've been married for 10 years now and you see that I'm all over the place. My marriage is hardly complicated at all. I still have fun and (along with thousands of other grown, married men) still do my thing. With my CVCC and all.

But I can't knock your choices and don't see you as any less of a man just because you don't want to settle down or have children. I don't see any moral wrong being done there. I will say that I couldn't imagine NOT having one. Once you die, your family lineage is dead. Your ancestry ends with you. Later, QD.

[trini_gsr]

i have two boys, amari just turned 7 last week and asiah will be 2 weeks old tomorrow plus my girlfriend has 2 girls that i love like they're mine anyways (joniah - 9 and nuriah - 6), so that's 4 all in all...

and yup kids are really a blessing. i can't imagine life without them, they make all the hard work worthwhile. i still stay active and get to do what i want to do...it's just that your priorities change once kids are involved. still, i totally respect a person who decides not to have kids until they're ready, because that's being responsible too. better that, than being a deadbeat parent for sure...