i know what you mean by some christians being very judgemental and pushy, i myself don't go to church because i had a bad experience when i was younger basically they were trying to force me down to the altar to be saved and there were like five different people who were pushing me to go and i haven't been back since, but i do believe in god i just don't beleive that you have to go every sunday to be a christian. it's your own personal choice whether you do or you don't. the people who do judge and are hypocrtical are the ones who aren't being christian.