It's because "Christians" are taught the birds of a feather way of life. If you don't go to church...you suck. If you don't regularly pray...you suck. If you are not near perfect in everything...you suck. They act like, because they do those things, they are above everyone else. I am in your same boat. I canb't tell you how many times I've been asked why I don't believe in God or why do I post in here if I don't believe in God. I've never said I didn't. In fact, it's quite the opposite. They are taught to determine who you are by first appearance. If you don't fit the bill...you suck. Later, QD.