I feel that if people just be themselves from the beginning (don't get extreme with it though), then there won't be any surprises.
What do I like? That is actually really hard for me to answer. I basically just like for a guy to be himself. I like certain things with certain guys, but everyone is different. Every guy I've ever dated have all been so very different from the other. But I do have certain criteria that I look for like: can hold good and intellectual conversations, well spoken, has a job, a car, motivated, good hearted, good listener, good sense of humor, family oriented, GOD fearing, and good looking. These must be present (not all at once, but most) in order for me to really consider a relationship with them. I don't think that is asking for too much since these have been common traits I've found amongst many guys
