That's what women think - and that is fucked up. It's not the 1920s anymore and those days are basically done. LOL.
Personally, when I meet a woman in person or online I like setting up the coffee date. 1) coffe is cheap - I don't blow $40 on a stupid bitch. 2) coffee is quick - if there is no connection I can "man up" long enuff to get a coffee down before I split. 3) if there IS a connect, coffee is a great "start" - u can always say "hey, let's jut go grab a bite so we can finish talking". Coffee allows a lot of "escape routes" if needed.