have you ever...

[Master Shake]

had one of your parents come between you and the one you love the most?
what did you do about it? did everything work out?

its the mess i'm in now. i'm havin to live at home with my mom since i was layed off and trying to find another job. well, my girlfriend of well over 3 years was here with me, and my mom had said something about her staying over. said she could, and then was bitching at like 6 in the morning cause she was here. saying she didn't want her here all the time,but she stays maybe once a week. well my girl over heard it and is now mad at me, thinkin i lied to her about what my mom had said about the situation. this is not the first time my mom has caused problems between us and i'm trying to find work so i can get my own place again cause i want me and the girl to live together.

i love this girl. i have a firm belief in my heart that she is "the one". i could never see myself with anyone else but her. i'm only 21, and i know its crazy for me to say things like this, but its how i really feel. and being as young as i am, i want to start working, and start a family with her. i'm completely tore about the whole thing and not sure about what to do. if i can find work, then i know things will get better. but as of now, my girl, doesn't want much to do with me cause of what my mom had said. i didn't lie to her about anything, i didnt hide anything, and i was honest to her. she thinks i did and i try to explain to her that what happened, was not her fault, wasn't really my fault. my mom just started to bitch about it cause she was here.
i would really like to know the perspective on how other people see the situation and what i should do to try and get things to the way they were before all this started.

[Vteckidd]

Get a job and get the fuck out LOL I could NEVER live with my parents again, NEVER

Do what you gotta do, but if your girl is gonna flip out over this small thing, you dont need her. IF they dont love you for when your down and out, then they dont really love you.

feel me?

[Master Shake]

Get a job and get the fuck out LOL I could NEVER live with my parents again, NEVER

Do what you gotta do, but if your girl is gonna flip out over this small thing, you dont need her. IF they dont love you for when your down and out, then they dont really love you.

feel me?

the thing is, i know she loves me though. she really does, she has a job in retail, while i was working for a company, and during most of the time, she understood that i didn't want to live here, she knows i don't like it and that i want out. she would always take me out and stuff and it kills me to have things like that. i just hate it when she does stuff like that for me cause it makes me feel like a piece of shit. i don't like her taking me out, i wanna be the one who does that. i wanna take care of her and do all that i can to be a great guy for her. i wish i could be one to have my own place, pay all the bills, cook for her and all that. she is in school and i want her to concentrate on that, without anything else to worry about.
she's really upset cause she thinks i lied to her about her being here when i didn't cause of what my mom said. i hate the rules she makes and how she will say one thing and then twist the shit up later. i have put in so many applications in the past few weeks and just no one is hiring. i'm trying to get my old job back at wal-mart, and if i do, will be looking to get out of here ASAP!!!!
i never wanted to move back, but i was put into a position where i really didn't have a choice about it. cause it was either back at home or homeless.