How would it be a gay thing? Even gay guys have sex to reach an orgasm.

If it weren't supposed to be enjoyed, why would it feel good? I think its very natural. In the end humans are animals.. and many animals procreate by means of traditional sex. Its an instinctual urge to have sex.. don't feel bad about it. I think most biblical references to masturbation and sex were just a means to try and control people because they didn't want their wives and daughters to be whores.

Cliff notes: enjoy it, dont feel bad LOL