Thanks for the post tony and others who kept it mature. To your question tony, yes it also happens when im alone..the feeling of guilt and depression.

Your right about it not being a very open topic seeing as alot of guys would not want to talk about this in fear of what people might think. It has gone on to long for me and its getting to the point where its affecting me badly.

I will look into what you were talking about with either low testosterone or high prolactin levs. much appreciated tony!!