No Sex = Justified Porn, Right?

[Ran]

So me and my girlfriend have been together for a few years now. Things are great and we just got a new apartment. There is a hiccup though. Over the past few weeks she's started getting back into her religion. That's cool and all, but this means no sharing a bed and no sex obviously. I've been cool with this since I respect her decision to do what she things is right. With that in mind, I have had some adult material added to my comp every now and then. This is justifiable, right? I mean, she expressed her displeasure with the thought of me having to watch porn but what's a guy to do?

Any advice?

[Sammich]

FAP TO THE FIT TV CHANNEL..ALOT OF FIT BIG BOOTY BISHES ON THERE...LOL

BUT SERIOUSLY...I GUESS ITS JUSTIFIABLE

[Ran]

FAP TO THE FIT TV CHANNEL..ALOT OF FIT BIG BOOTY BISHES ON THERE...LOL

No thanks. lol

BUT SERIOUSLY...I GUESS ITS JUSTIFIABLE

You feel where I'm coming from though, right? In all honesty, I'm a pretty sexually driven person. I won't lie about that so I kinda need an outlet of some sort. I'm good to hold out for a few days or so, but tension builds up.

[NevrNufTorq]

No thanks. lol

You feel where I'm coming from though, right? In all honesty, I'm a pretty sexually driven person. I won't lie about that so I kinda need an outlet of some sort. I'm good to hold out for a few days or so, but tension builds up.

i feel ya and we've had this discussion before some girls no matter what think porn is cheating no matter what the use of it is for and others dont

you know how religious i am but also i am no where near perfect so.......do what you have to do

[Ran]

i feel ya and we've had this discussion before

I wasn't sure if I had posted up on this before or not. lol

some girls no matter what think porn is cheating no matter what the use of it is for and others dont

She doesn't consider it cheating, she just doesn't like. Says it makes her feel insecure and self-conscious even though I tell her that she has nothing to worry about.

[NevrNufTorq]

I wasn't sure if I had posted up on this before or not. lol

She doesn't consider it cheating, she just doesn't like. Says it makes her feel insecure and self-conscious even though I tell her that she has nothing to worry about.

like i said she considers it cheating....someone put up a post somewhere about what chicks really mean when they say what they say....this is just a guilt trip so maybe you'll give it up....gotta read between the lines oldest trick in the world for a girl, easier to say it makes me uncomfortable than i dont want itb...guilt you from it and maybe you wont dump her off b/c you feel sorry for her instead of what you want


me, for example. 35, divorced, was married for 3.5 years. my girl, divorced, was married for 10 years. now we're together, is it even plausible to think we're not having sex after dating for 9 months?!?!?!? come on, both religious, we dont make exscuses and justify, we both admit we're in the wrong but now we're supposed to just turn it off again??? just things to ponder bro

[Sammich]

No thanks. lol

You feel where I'm coming from though, right? In all honesty, I'm a pretty sexually driven person. I won't lie about that so I kinda need an outlet of some sort. I'm good to hold out for a few days or so, but tension builds up.

LOL THERE ARE ALSO SKINNY HOES W/ FLAT BODIES

BUT I TOTALLY FEEL WHERE U ARE COMING FROM MAN...TENSION BUILDS UP..IM NOT TRYNA HAVE MY PIPE BUST FOR NO WOMAN

[Vteckidd]

ehhh i wouldnt change for anyone nor expect anyone to change for me.

Its a bad situation because to her it will appear like you are only interested in sex.

But im sorry this isnt the 50s , sex is just a big apart of a relationship as anything else. if the sex sucks, or isnt there, its a problem for 99% of people.

I understand and respect what shes trying to do, but if it doesnt work, it doesnt work.

An porn is justifiable even if you ARE getting laid

[SlowsterCivy]

I'm a virgin. Personally, I don't see what right she has to say she does not want you tending to yourself. It's your body, and if you aren't out there literally, physically, cheating on her. That should be enough for her. I don't tell my fiance I prefer him not tend to himself, bc it's pretty much a given, what man out there that is not getting sex, is able to not masturbate, i mean really.

[Ran]

It's your body, and if you aren't out there literally, physically, cheating on her. That should be enough for her.

That's kind of my take on it.

Now don't get me wrong guys, my girlfriend isn't some hardnosed b*tch ordering me around or anything. She's just trying to make some changes and I'm trying to be as supportive as I can. I just wanted to see how you guys looked at the situation.

[NevrNufTorq]

That's kind of my take on it.

Now don't get me wrong guys, my girlfriend isn't some hardnosed b*tch ordering me around or anything. She's just trying to make some changes and I'm trying to be as supportive as I can. I just wanted to see how you guys looked at the situation.

and like when this happened last time i applauded you then too for being supportive. very good of you and shows that you do care for her

[Maniacc]

I'm a virgin.

You're a virgin because you're ugly as hell. You didn't choose abstinence, abstinence chose you.

[SlowsterCivy]

Well, I don't think us females have the right to tell whoever we are with it's not right to masturbate if we aren't having sex with them, what do you expect? The guy to go nuts with all the tension that builts up? I mean, I do have a heart.

[Vteckidd]

will shit not have intercourse, and do other things, or no sexual activity at ALL?

[Sammich]

FAP FOR PRESIDENT IMO

[metalman]

If her religion is a Bible based one perhaps she should study it a little farther.
If she has had sex with you, and lives with you, and is committed to you...according to that Book there is no sin in continuing in that. In fact its called 'marriage'....hate to scare you. LOL...Sounds to me like some typical churchy brainwashing teaching which is derived from the words of preachers rather then sound principle.

[Ran]

If her religion is a Bible based one perhaps she should study it a little farther.
If she has had sex with you, and lives with you, and is committed to you...according to that Book there is no sin in continuing in that. In fact its called 'marriage'....hate to scare you. LOL...Sounds to me like some typical churchy brainwashing teaching which is derived from the words of preachers rather then sound principle.

Actually there is still sin in continuing it if it's out of wedlock. We're not married so it's just as much of a sin now as it was the first time. The fact that she's trying to stop that, is a good thing religiously. Just a strain on myself a bit. lol

Also, considering our circumstance we've talked to a couple of religious elders about it. While God may not condemn her for living under the same roof as me, He apparently will not bless her efforts either until the santity of marriage is formed between us. I'm not sure about all the details here since I'm not really into the whole religion thing, but that's the gist of it as far as I know.

Wait, Ran has your girlfriend already had sex again? Is she trying to be that "reborn virgin again" crap b/c that's just trying to make that person feel better about themselves for having sex before marriage....

We have already had sex, and she realizes that she committed a sin. She's not trying to become a "reborn virgin" or anything like that, she's just trying to clean herself up and get straight with God, ya know?

[metalman]

Actually there is still sin in continuing it if it's out of wedlock. We're not married so it's just as much of a sin now as it was the first time. The fact that she's trying to stop that, is a good thing religiously. Just a strain on myself a bit. lol

Also, considering our circumstance we've talked to a couple of religious elders about it. While God may not condemn her for living under the same roof as me, He apparently will not bless her efforts either until the santity of marriage is formed between us.

In fact thats a typical twist of what the Bible actually teaches.
Once you've had sex with a person you ARE entered into 'wedlock'. The Bible teaches nothing about rules of marriage ceremonies and rings etc. thats all nonsensical man made tradition. The very act of sex is reserved for 'marriage' Biblically...and the sign that one has entered into marriage in the Biblical sense...is consummating that relation sexually and thus committing to that person. There is no adultery until you seek sex ie. 'marriage' elsewhere...and/or break that commitment...IF the Bible is your/her thing.
The adultery issue is a pesky ones for Christians and they prefer to attach a 'marriage ceremony' into the mix but in reality the ceremony occurs when you 'take a wife"...ie. have sex with her. The only purpose of any outward 'ceremony' is to make this act public to others...which in your case it already is. She's living with you...thats no secret. lol...

This is a typical confusion of what principles are actually taught in that Book...and we have 2000 years of catholic and other nonsensical traditions to thank for that.


Nevertheless...good luck with all of it.

[Ran]

Once you've had sex with a person you ARE entered into 'wedlock'. The Bible teaches nothing about rules of marriage ceremonies and rings etc. thats all nonsensical man made tradition. The very act of sex is reserved for 'marriage' Biblically...and the sign that one has entered into marriage in the Biblical sense...is consummating that relation sexually and thus committing to that person. There is no adultery until you seek sex ie. 'marriage' elsewhere...and/or break that commitment...IF the Bible is your/her thing.

I have never heard this before.

[SlowsterCivy]

Wait, Ran has your girlfriend already had sex again? Is she trying to be that "reborn virgin again" crap b/c that's just trying to make that person feel better about themselves for having sex before marriage....

[SlowsterCivy]

Wait, Ran has your girlfriend already had sex again? Is she trying to be that "reborn virgin again" crap b/c that's just trying to make that person feel better about themselves for having sex before marriage....

[Sammich]

SEX W/O MARRIAGE IS FORNICATION ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE..METAL MAN...GET A BRAIN MAN *RUNS*
BUT YEA

IF YALL GET MARRIED, THEN BIBLE BASED YALL ARE STRAIGHT WITH MARRIAGE...

[aaronfelipe]

Doesn't she post on here lol?

[Ran]

Doesn't she post on here lol?

No, the @ssholes and what-not scared her away. lol

[Sammich]

No, the @ssholes and what-not scared her away. lol

I AM NOT AN ASSHOLE

[SlowsterCivy]

I got ya. Well for me, personally...once you've had sex, i see no point in trying to clean up and get straight, i mean you've already had sex..........so really to me,its WHAT in the hell is the point in that! lol

[Ran]

I got ya. Well for me, personally...once you've had sex, i see no point in trying to clean up and get straight, i mean you've already had sex..........so really to me,its WHAT in the hell is the point in that! lol

Well, just because you f*ck up once doesn't mean you have to keep at it. That's like saying just because you lied, you might as well keep lying since you already threw your creditibility out the window. lol

[SlowsterCivy]

Well, just because you f*ck up once doesn't mean you have to keep at it. That's like saying just because you lied, you might as well keep lying since you already threw your creditibility out the window. lol

LOL. I know dear, but it's not common for someone to actually regret having had sex before marriage which is why i responded like that. It's shocking.

On another note if you guys have been having sex, it's kinda CRUEL to just take that away from you (the guy) I mean i cant even imagine, but im sure it's hell.

[Ran]

LOL. I know dear, but it's not common for someone to actually regret having had sex before marriage which is why i responded like that. It's shocking.

Oh alright, I must have misread your post then. My bad.

On another note if you guys have been having sex, it's kinda CRUEL to just take that away from you (the guy) I mean i cant even imagine, but im sure it's hell.

Oh, it sucks. No doubt about that. lol

[Vteckidd]

i couldnt have a relationship without sex, im a horny motherfucker lol.

good luck with that.

[NevrNufTorq]

i couldnt have a relationship without sex, im a horny motherfucker lol.

good luck with that.

go fix my sig!!!

[Vteckidd]

go fix my sig!!!

i will have it done by tonight, been busy with all this China shit

[NevrNufTorq]

i will have it done by tonight, been busy with all this China shit

yeah, yeah, cry me a river

j/k


sorry for the threadjack ran, you got my already

[Ran]

i couldnt have a relationship without sex, im a horny motherfucker lol.

good luck with that.

lol, thanks man.

[keevo54]

i couldnt have a relationship without sex, im a horny motherfucker lol.

good luck with that.

haha +1.

Dude thats fucked up she had sex but doesnt want to anymore bc religion.....either u r awful in bed or she is getting it somewhere else :idb: .......just my opinion

[Arm&hammer]

why not just look at pron but keep it a secret?

[The Ninja]

So me and my girlfriend have been together for a few years now. Things are great and we just got a new apartment. There is a hiccup though. Over the past few weeks she's started getting back into her religion. That's cool and all, but this means no sharing a bed and no sex obviously. I've been cool with this since I respect her decision to do what she things is right. With that in mind, I have had some adult material added to my comp every now and then. This is justifiable, right? I mean, she expressed her displeasure with the thought of me having to watch porn but what's a guy to do?

Any advice?

Damn, fucking religion. Fucking things up for man for thousands of years.

You don't have to justify your use of porn, and if you feel the need to ask then you obviously have some personal problems with using porn while in a relationship even with a lack of sex.

SO.... simply because you asked it'd be better for your mental health if you just refrained from the porn and introduced your chick to the falcon punch.

[Ran]

Damn, fucking religion. Fucking things up for man for thousands of years.

You don't have to justify your use of porn, and if you feel the need to ask then you obviously have some personal problems with using porn while in a relationship even with a lack of sex.

SO.... simply because you asked it'd be better for your mental health if you just refrained from the porn and introduced your chick to the falcon punch.

Not quite the most constructive post in here, but by far the funniest. I don't have any personal issues with porn. My posts and demeanor should give you that impression. I merely take in her perspective because I respect her and want to keep her happy. I only posted here because I wanted to see what other people thought about it.

[The Ninja]

Not quite the most constructive post in here, but by far the funniest. I don't have any personal issues with porn. My posts and demeanor should give you that impression. I merely take in her perspective because I respect her and want to keep her happy. I only posted here because I wanted to see what other people thought about it.

Glad I could help!

[Princess12]

I guess my situation is a little different because I am married, but I'm 100% ok with my hubby taking care of himself as long as porn remains exactly what it is... porn. In my opinion, it is simply a platonic relationship between his hand, his dick, and some sexually "talented" chick that only comes around when he presses "Play" and goes away when he presses "Stop."

I do think that it is very admirable that you are making a strong effort to make her feel comfortable and support her decision!