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    Default Should You Marry Someone Your Age or Someone Much Younger?

    This is a personal decision, but women age faster than men, and most men date girls 1, maybe 2 years younger than them while in college.A common approach seems to be, step 1: graduate. Step 2: marry college sweet heart. Step 3: 20 years later, divorce for a younger, more virile spouse model.Shouldn't you just mess around for 20 more years and then find your wife? Seems like a better financial decision.Or am I just way too shallow?

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    I had sex when I was 5

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    Quote Originally Posted by simontibbett
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gitteneatly
    This is a personal decision, but women age faster than men, and most men date girls 1, maybe 2 years younger than them while in college.A common approach seems to be, step 1: graduate. Step 2: marry college sweet heart. Step 3: 20 years later, divorce for a younger, more virile spouse model.Shouldn't you just mess around for 20 more years and then find your wife? Seems like a better financial decision.Or am I just way too shallow?
    Sounds like you already have women figured out.

























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    Quote Originally Posted by Gitteneatly
    Or am I just way too shallow?
    You're barely shallow.
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    Honestly, I never really thought of it that way. It's not traditional, but true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gitteneatly
    This is a personal decision, but women age faster than men, and most men date girls 1, maybe 2 years younger than them while in college.A common approach seems to be, step 1: graduate. Step 2: marry college sweet heart. Step 3: 20 years later, divorce for a younger, more virile spouse model.Shouldn't you just mess around for 20 more years and then find your wife? Seems like a better financial decision.Or am I just way too shallow?

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    The real issue here isn't the age of the girl in question, but her mentality and what she wants from the relationship. If she wants to make it a serious relationship as much as you do, then it'll work out. If not, then it won't. Dating younger girls has it's good and bad point. Still, girls will be girls no matter what their age so be more judgemental on mentality rather than age.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ran
    The real issue here isn't the age of the girl in question, but her mentality and what she wants from the relationship. If she wants to make it a serious relationship as much as you do, then it'll work out. If not, then it won't. Dating younger girls has it's good and bad point. Still, girls will be girls no matter what their age so be more judgemental on mentality rather than age.
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    You travel with so much luggage that it wont fit in a wagon? you dating a kardashian?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ran
    The real issue here isn't the age of the girl in question, but her mentality and what she wants from the relationship. If she wants to make it a serious relationship as much as you do, then it'll work out. If not, then it won't. Dating younger girls has it's good and bad point. Still, girls will be girls no matter what their age so be more judgemental on mentality rather than age.

    QFT x2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    OP lost me, lol...

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    I got married this year. My wife and I are the same age. Seems to work fine to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by allmotoronly
    I got married this year. My wife and I are the same age. Seems to work fine to me.
    for now it is!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 9ussy
    for now it is!
    exactamundo

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    lets see what happens in this years to come
    wait til their comprehension skills go under
    i'm waiting too lol



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    Invalid question.

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    i just got married this year, my wife is a year younger than me... and we ar pretty good together.. lets see what happens in this years to come
    Peek-a-boo mofucka what now?!

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    I've never dated younger and whenever I tried I was dissapointed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tony
    I've never dated younger and whenever I tried I was dissapointed.
    ive been disappointed w/ older and younger, only relationship i miss tho is w/ an older chick.

    so like its been said, its not the age, its the mentaliaty



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    I could never date younger guy. Gotta be older



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    red...lemme be the exception



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