You know what Paul? YOU are absolutely correct there my friend.
I was raised in the Catholic church and my wife was raised in the Baptist church. When we married, this made for some difficult situations. When the children were born, it compounded the problem. What church would we raise our children in????
Well, we decided to visit a bunch of different churches to find out which one would make BOTH of us happy. I had some things I didn't agree with from both the Catholic church and the Baptist, as did she. We weren't looking to switch religions, as our basic beliefs were the same it was just the "churches" handled it so differently.
While looking and visiting a number of different churches, we found one that as corny as it sounds she and I looked at each other and both said "this is it". We literally said that and joined that church that day. We have not regreted our decision since. It has traditional values like the Catholic church, but also has a big contemporary message. It has old school customs as well as modern things we can actually use. We enjoy going and we enjoy doing the things we volunteer to do there as well.
All that background to say this: I personally have visited many many churches before. Some were honestly a complete turn off to me for a variety of reasons. Some of those reasons are exactly what you said, they are "watered" down. Some were too political, some were about nothing but money, some were to fanatical.
I agree that some "churches" are not being good examples of what they are supposed to be. I also am here to tell you that I KNOW that some ARE. The key is to find one where you can spread your wings. Worshiping by yourself is good, but spreading it is better. That is where a "church" comes in. It's supposed to help you to achieve many spiritual goals, and that is one of them. Some "churches" are better at that than others. You can't condemn ALL churches under the same stigma. Not saying you do, just saying.
