besides marrying my wife, i would say deciding to move to savannah to finish college w/ a bachelor's instead of settling w/ a associates and staying back home where its "safe" (all of mine and my wife's family live like 10mins. away from each other). we took a risk and moved far away from home and i feel like i know her better in 3 months of marriage and living together than i ever did in the 5 years we dated......self discovery FTW LoL.