Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
If you're married and you have two separate accounts, then you shouldn't be married. Having separate accounts for each person is a "trust" issue. And if you have issues in trust, then there's no reason to stay together. When you get married, all priorities change. At least in a normal relationship. You've got to put family first. Over ANYthing else. You've got food, electricity, water, house and other bills that you're now providing for at least two (if not more with children) people. All the "toys" and shiit goes to the back burner. It doesn't have to be put on hold (unless it isn't financially reasonable), but it needs to be placed behind everything else. If all is well, and you can afford it after everything is taken care of, then by all means, go for it on your hobby. But if you have to hide accounts and have separate accounts, then there going to be problems. I couldn't think of disrespecting my wife by making her have her own account. I've been married for 10 years to this one we've always had the same account and we have no problems. Later, QD.
couldn't agree more.