Another dating rant

[CRXchic19]

i wish i would have gotten in on this topic sooner, i havent been on IA in a while


Its nice to see that some guys actually look for an intelligent girl, though i'm not quite sure the age group of you all, as it seems to vary here on IA (i'm 21 btw). Eye candy is nice, its a nice thing for girls, too, to have that trophy boyfriend with a rocking body and killer smile. But over the years i guess ive grown out of it and cant seem to find a guy who can hold a decent conversation, or one who agrees that binge-drinking is not a sport.... Its hard to find a NORMAL guy who can enjoy an in-depth conversation on more than just the trivial day-to-day things , who can also hold his own on the soccer field (or whatever active sport he is into), and still go 1 on 1 at video games.



ok,ok, i'll get off my soapbox now...


i just find it kind of ironic, really

[tony]

i wish i would have gotten in on this topic sooner, i havent been on IA in a while


Its nice to see that some guys actually look for an intelligent girl, though i'm not quite sure the age group of you all, as it seems to vary here on IA (i'm 21 btw). Eye candy is nice, its a nice thing for girls, too, to have that trophy boyfriend with a rocking body and killer smile. But over the years i guess ive grown out of it and cant seem to find a guy who can hold a decent conversation, or one who agrees that binge-drinking is not a sport.... Its hard to find a NORMAL guy who can enjoy an in-depth conversation on more than just the trivial day-to-day things , who can also hold his own on the soccer field (or whatever active sport he is into), and still go 1 on 1 at video games.



ok,ok, i'll get off my soapbox now...


i just find it kind of ironic, really

I'm sure there are a bunch of guys on this board that are like that and then some.. I don't buy it that there are a shortage of smart guys out here.

[93Polo]

I agree the ability to hold a conversation goes a long way. The trophy girl firend is nice but you have to find a mix of both. The ones that have both and can handle being in a committed relationship go quick.

CRXChik at 21 good SO's are hard to find for the guys and the ladies. At that age I just wanted a good benefits package. At 30 I want something balanced and stable.